"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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2 Questions I always lose with.

Konada

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1. What are you looking for?
"Not looking for anything much, no expectations. Just go with the flow and see what happens."
Room for improvement?

2. How many relationships have you had?
I never had a gf/virgin but I don't know how to turn this question around without lying to her face. Help!
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You're on the right track. Here's what I've used:

1. Depends on what I find.

2. I'm a virgin. <---Only works if you obviously aren't. Girls eat that **** up, and it gives you a point of discussion/teasing you can keep going up until the point you get them into bed

EDIT--just reread your 2nd question (missed the virgin part). Can't go wrong with Bible_Belt's answer vvv
 
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The key to handling a serious question is to brush it off with a non-serious answer. For #2, "I don't kiss and tell" is a golden phrase that will get you far. Women want to wonder about your past relationships, but they really don't want to know the details.
 

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thatfeel

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Yep. Case closed.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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1. What are you looking for?
"Not looking for anything much, no expectations. Just go with the flow and see what happens."
Room for improvement?
I don't know bro. If I was interviewing an employee and they asked me "what are you looking for?" I would respond: "I'm looking for someone who can do this, do that, do this and that, etc, etc." When you say "go with the flow, no expectations, etc" it's like you are in lala land.

2. How many relationships have you had?
I never had a gf/virgin but I don't know how to turn this question around without lying to her face. Help!
Just say "a few" and move on to something else.
 

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For the second question I LOVE IT when I get it.

" I honestly don't know , never kept count "

Virgin women DON'T want virgin men , most women prefer an experienced guy - use this to your advantage.
 
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