"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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2 Questions I always lose with.

Konada

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1. What are you looking for?
"Not looking for anything much, no expectations. Just go with the flow and see what happens."
Room for improvement?

2. How many relationships have you had?
I never had a gf/virgin but I don't know how to turn this question around without lying to her face. Help!
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You're on the right track. Here's what I've used:

1. Depends on what I find.

2. I'm a virgin. <---Only works if you obviously aren't. Girls eat that **** up, and it gives you a point of discussion/teasing you can keep going up until the point you get them into bed

EDIT--just reread your 2nd question (missed the virgin part). Can't go wrong with Bible_Belt's answer vvv
 
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The key to handling a serious question is to brush it off with a non-serious answer. For #2, "I don't kiss and tell" is a golden phrase that will get you far. Women want to wonder about your past relationships, but they really don't want to know the details.
 

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thatfeel

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Yep. Case closed.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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1. What are you looking for?
"Not looking for anything much, no expectations. Just go with the flow and see what happens."
Room for improvement?
I don't know bro. If I was interviewing an employee and they asked me "what are you looking for?" I would respond: "I'm looking for someone who can do this, do that, do this and that, etc, etc." When you say "go with the flow, no expectations, etc" it's like you are in lala land.

2. How many relationships have you had?
I never had a gf/virgin but I don't know how to turn this question around without lying to her face. Help!
Just say "a few" and move on to something else.
 

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For the second question I LOVE IT when I get it.

" I honestly don't know , never kept count "

Virgin women DON'T want virgin men , most women prefer an experienced guy - use this to your advantage.
 
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