Last week I went on a camp with a few friends in the woods near my city.There I spent the whole night with one cute girl , and the things went far...we were kissing,hugging... The next day she had to go to another city so I couldn't see her for a few days.By this time i found out that i really like her but like friend.So I started to court again the last girl i was in love with.But here is the problem,I did not say to the first girl I want to be just friends,and the other girl knows i like her. The problem will be resolved on a birthdayparty.Tell me how to break up with the first and not to hurt the other girl(when she sees me with the first one)
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
2 chicks are too much for me
- Thread starter ascalon
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Ah, I had a feeling that was the case. In English, love is an incredibly strong wordascalon said:I am not perfect in english ,sorry about that...
I wanted to say that i invited the girl i liked before on a date
Honesty has always been the best policy. In the right situations..
If you need to let a girl down, just be honest with her. Tell her you're not feeling chemistry, or that you just don't want her. Be nice, but be honest, coming up with excuses will only make the situation more awkward.
Either way, good luck buddy
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Youre full of shi*.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.