Last week I went on a camp with a few friends in the woods near my city.There I spent the whole night with one cute girl , and the things went far...we were kissing,hugging... The next day she had to go to another city so I couldn't see her for a few days.By this time i found out that i really like her but like friend.So I started to court again the last girl i was in love with.But here is the problem,I did not say to the first girl I want to be just friends,and the other girl knows i like her. The problem will be resolved on a birthdayparty.Tell me how to break up with the first and not to hurt the other girl(when she sees me with the first one)
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
2 chicks are too much for me
- Thread starter ascalon
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Ah, I had a feeling that was the case. In English, love is an incredibly strong wordascalon said:I am not perfect in english ,sorry about that...
I wanted to say that i invited the girl i liked before on a date
Honesty has always been the best policy. In the right situations..
If you need to let a girl down, just be honest with her. Tell her you're not feeling chemistry, or that you just don't want her. Be nice, but be honest, coming up with excuses will only make the situation more awkward.
Either way, good luck buddy
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Youre full of shi*.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.