"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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2 chicks are too much for me

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Last week I went on a camp with a few friends in the woods near my city.There I spent the whole night with one cute girl , and the things went far...we were kissing,hugging... The next day she had to go to another city so I couldn't see her for a few days.By this time i found out that i really like her but like friend.So I started to court again the last girl i was in love with.But here is the problem,I did not say to the first girl I want to be just friends,and the other girl knows i like her. The problem will be resolved on a birthdayparty.Tell me how to break up with the first and not to hurt the other girl(when she sees me with the first one)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ascalon said:
So I started to court again the last girl i was in love with.
Take a look at that sentence. Figure out what is wrong with it. Any idea?
 

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I am not perfect in english ,sorry about that...

I wanted to say that i invited the girl i liked before on a date :)
 

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ascalon said:
I am not perfect in english ,sorry about that...

I wanted to say that i invited the girl i liked before on a date :)
Ah, I had a feeling that was the case. In English, love is an incredibly strong word ;)

Honesty has always been the best policy. In the right situations..

If you need to let a girl down, just be honest with her. Tell her you're not feeling chemistry, or that you just don't want her. Be nice, but be honest, coming up with excuses will only make the situation more awkward.

Either way, good luck buddy :up:
 

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Youre full of shi*.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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