"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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2 chicks are too much for me

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Last week I went on a camp with a few friends in the woods near my city.There I spent the whole night with one cute girl , and the things went far...we were kissing,hugging... The next day she had to go to another city so I couldn't see her for a few days.By this time i found out that i really like her but like friend.So I started to court again the last girl i was in love with.But here is the problem,I did not say to the first girl I want to be just friends,and the other girl knows i like her. The problem will be resolved on a birthdayparty.Tell me how to break up with the first and not to hurt the other girl(when she sees me with the first one)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ascalon said:
So I started to court again the last girl i was in love with.
Take a look at that sentence. Figure out what is wrong with it. Any idea?
 

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I am not perfect in english ,sorry about that...

I wanted to say that i invited the girl i liked before on a date :)
 

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ascalon said:
I am not perfect in english ,sorry about that...

I wanted to say that i invited the girl i liked before on a date :)
Ah, I had a feeling that was the case. In English, love is an incredibly strong word ;)

Honesty has always been the best policy. In the right situations..

If you need to let a girl down, just be honest with her. Tell her you're not feeling chemistry, or that you just don't want her. Be nice, but be honest, coming up with excuses will only make the situation more awkward.

Either way, good luck buddy :up:
 

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Youre full of shi*.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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