"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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cola

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Yeah so sometimes I can't get to the gym my standard 4 days..
But I have a random day off during the week, like a Wednesday.

So could I on those random wednesdays or a day I'm not doing nothing go to the gym say 7am do like legs then go home sleep, eat come back and do back and bi's?

Any experience with 2 a days? I know a lot of pro athletes do them..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you do it sparingly it is OK.

I do this when I know there are going to be schedule conflicts and I won't be able to get another workout in later in the week.

I wouldn't make it something regular though.
 

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I used to play Jr A hockey. Wed do cardio in the mornings then skate then lift weights. This would go on for a month or 2 before the season.

You defiantly can just make sure you listen to your body after a couple weeks and see if you need a day or 2 off 2 a days
 

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Yes, but it's very taxing on the body, especially if you aren't getting 8+ hours of sleep a night.

Two 30 minute sessions in a day at least 4 hours apart are far more effective from a hormonal standpoint than a single 1 hour session. I used this with Gironda 8x8's where you actually do the exact same workout twice in a day but use heavier weights the second time. You want to talk about exhausting....
 

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Espi said:
last summer when I reduced my body fat from 20% to 10%, I routinely worked two a days. That means I would do cardio first thing in the morning on an empty stomach for 1 hour, then come back at night and do weights, three to four times a week, & I was eating very clean and every 2-3 hours. I was also completely drug free. Meaning, no alcohol, no weed, no nothing. So I think that it can be done. Especially at age 26.

Personally I feel extended cardio is a waste of time and muscle. I think you'd get much better results from doing HIIT in the morning for 10-15 minutes max, or do a fast paced circuit style workout and THEN do 5 minutes of HIIT afterwards. The amount of growth hormone that will be released from that would be enormous.

I have done no long, steady state cardio for over a year and I'm at one of the lowest body fat percentages of my life...veins popping all over the place, even getting 2 or 3 of them in my abs starting to show which I think is kinda nasty, but whatever.

My trainer had me doing HIIT twice a week after workouts for 10 minutes the past 6 weeks or so, but has since taken that out as he is afraid I'm going to burn out from it since I wear a 50lb weighted vest during training(and during HIIT as well) he thinks I am not going to see much difference in fat loss by removing it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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