"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cola

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Yeah so sometimes I can't get to the gym my standard 4 days..
But I have a random day off during the week, like a Wednesday.

So could I on those random wednesdays or a day I'm not doing nothing go to the gym say 7am do like legs then go home sleep, eat come back and do back and bi's?

Any experience with 2 a days? I know a lot of pro athletes do them..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you do it sparingly it is OK.

I do this when I know there are going to be schedule conflicts and I won't be able to get another workout in later in the week.

I wouldn't make it something regular though.
 

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I used to play Jr A hockey. Wed do cardio in the mornings then skate then lift weights. This would go on for a month or 2 before the season.

You defiantly can just make sure you listen to your body after a couple weeks and see if you need a day or 2 off 2 a days
 

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Yes, but it's very taxing on the body, especially if you aren't getting 8+ hours of sleep a night.

Two 30 minute sessions in a day at least 4 hours apart are far more effective from a hormonal standpoint than a single 1 hour session. I used this with Gironda 8x8's where you actually do the exact same workout twice in a day but use heavier weights the second time. You want to talk about exhausting....
 

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Espi said:
last summer when I reduced my body fat from 20% to 10%, I routinely worked two a days. That means I would do cardio first thing in the morning on an empty stomach for 1 hour, then come back at night and do weights, three to four times a week, & I was eating very clean and every 2-3 hours. I was also completely drug free. Meaning, no alcohol, no weed, no nothing. So I think that it can be done. Especially at age 26.

Personally I feel extended cardio is a waste of time and muscle. I think you'd get much better results from doing HIIT in the morning for 10-15 minutes max, or do a fast paced circuit style workout and THEN do 5 minutes of HIIT afterwards. The amount of growth hormone that will be released from that would be enormous.

I have done no long, steady state cardio for over a year and I'm at one of the lowest body fat percentages of my life...veins popping all over the place, even getting 2 or 3 of them in my abs starting to show which I think is kinda nasty, but whatever.

My trainer had me doing HIIT twice a week after workouts for 10 minutes the past 6 weeks or so, but has since taken that out as he is afraid I'm going to burn out from it since I wear a 50lb weighted vest during training(and during HIIT as well) he thinks I am not going to see much difference in fat loss by removing it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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