"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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1st thing you do when you walk into the field

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So say you are with your wing/s and you walk into a bar or club. What is the first thing you should typically do? I know the last thing you want to do is just stand there against the wall with your hands in your pockets looking like you're waiting for girls to come in.

Do you walk to the bar and sit down with a drink? Do you just start macking the second you walk in? Do you grab a table? What's should a DJ do first when he steps in the field?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Look at everyone like they have disappointed you in some way.
 
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Analyze the territory to see what targets there and what kind of opposition I can expect.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bring the fuking PARTY!!!

You're main goal before even hitting up the club is to pump your state on the way there...Example http://youtube.com/watch?v=K5EsKorNZ20

Now usually I'm by myself doing everything so I usually do the following...
- Sing out loud
- Dance on my way to the club
- Joking with friends/people in the club

Once I get to the club I instantly talk to someone or I go straight on the dancer floor, I'm not looking at no one I'm just having my own fun.
 
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