"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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1st thing you do when you walk into the field

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So say you are with your wing/s and you walk into a bar or club. What is the first thing you should typically do? I know the last thing you want to do is just stand there against the wall with your hands in your pockets looking like you're waiting for girls to come in.

Do you walk to the bar and sit down with a drink? Do you just start macking the second you walk in? Do you grab a table? What's should a DJ do first when he steps in the field?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Look at everyone like they have disappointed you in some way.
 
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Analyze the territory to see what targets there and what kind of opposition I can expect.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Bring the fuking PARTY!!!

You're main goal before even hitting up the club is to pump your state on the way there...Example http://youtube.com/watch?v=K5EsKorNZ20

Now usually I'm by myself doing everything so I usually do the following...
- Sing out loud
- Dance on my way to the club
- Joking with friends/people in the club

Once I get to the club I instantly talk to someone or I go straight on the dancer floor, I'm not looking at no one I'm just having my own fun.
 
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