"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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1st thing you do when you walk into the field

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So say you are with your wing/s and you walk into a bar or club. What is the first thing you should typically do? I know the last thing you want to do is just stand there against the wall with your hands in your pockets looking like you're waiting for girls to come in.

Do you walk to the bar and sit down with a drink? Do you just start macking the second you walk in? Do you grab a table? What's should a DJ do first when he steps in the field?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Look at everyone like they have disappointed you in some way.
 
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Analyze the territory to see what targets there and what kind of opposition I can expect.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bring the fuking PARTY!!!

You're main goal before even hitting up the club is to pump your state on the way there...Example http://youtube.com/watch?v=K5EsKorNZ20

Now usually I'm by myself doing everything so I usually do the following...
- Sing out loud
- Dance on my way to the club
- Joking with friends/people in the club

Once I get to the club I instantly talk to someone or I go straight on the dancer floor, I'm not looking at no one I'm just having my own fun.
 
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