"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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1st thing you do when you walk into the field

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So say you are with your wing/s and you walk into a bar or club. What is the first thing you should typically do? I know the last thing you want to do is just stand there against the wall with your hands in your pockets looking like you're waiting for girls to come in.

Do you walk to the bar and sit down with a drink? Do you just start macking the second you walk in? Do you grab a table? What's should a DJ do first when he steps in the field?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Look at everyone like they have disappointed you in some way.
 

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Analyze the territory to see what targets there and what kind of opposition I can expect.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bring the fuking PARTY!!!

You're main goal before even hitting up the club is to pump your state on the way there...Example http://youtube.com/watch?v=K5EsKorNZ20

Now usually I'm by myself doing everything so I usually do the following...
- Sing out loud
- Dance on my way to the club
- Joking with friends/people in the club

Once I get to the club I instantly talk to someone or I go straight on the dancer floor, I'm not looking at no one I'm just having my own fun.
 
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