"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
18 yr old havin' sex with a 14 yr old??
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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wouldnt tell her parents? What's to stop her parents finding out another way? At the very least, all her friends are gonna know. Chicks will tell their friends, their sisters, their cousins...
I know a girl who did it when she was 13. Of course she didn't tell her parents. But she had a fight with one of her best friends, and as 'revenge', her best friend rang her mom and told her everything. Hell breaks loose. So, unless you want to be sharing a cell with a 300lb black guy named Tyrese (no offense to any african americans)
I suggest you consider your options closely.Mr.Hash wid da Stash
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Not nessisarily. Check your local state laws for how age of concent works exactly. Here in Maryland an 18 year old having sex with a 14 year old would be ok because he is within 4 years of her. In most states the age of concent is 16. Here's a little chart my criminal investigations professor gave us:
14 - 15 years old: partner must be within 4 years
16+ years old:
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I always knew something was wrong with my home state...Originally posted by ShortTimer
\ Here in Maryland an 18 year old having sex with a 14 year old would be ok because he is within 4 years of her. In most states the age of concent is 16. Here's a little chart my criminal investigations professor gave us:
14 - 15 years old: partner must be within 4 years
16+ years old:
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Now here's the important question: Is it legal to bang 14 year old hookers?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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An 18 year old would be okay dating a 16 year old, there's a huge difference between 14-16 foolz.
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If nature floods the little girls body with hormones then she is ready for sex period. All you guys just wanna be moral with society. You guys are the same dudes back in the day who would be marrying and impregnating 14 year old girls and go to have 14 kids. Age of concent in Canada is 14 anyways with no anal.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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if this was in sweden people wouldn't even care....I recently discussed with a friend if it would be ok to do a 14y if your 20, like he is....and we both agreed that even thougt it would be a little akward and **** it would be totally doable and not a big thing...so you guys better think again....
realise that that attitude is just another thing imprinted by society...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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