backbreaker said:i'd hit that and not think twice about it (Sorry iqqi you are pretty cute if that is you)
No you wouldn't, stop lying. You are domesticated.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
backbreaker said:i'd hit that and not think twice about it (Sorry iqqi you are pretty cute if that is you)
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She's hot. Now whether she should be on a forum dedicated to helping men, when the DJ bible says advice from women is useless, is another issue all-together.Sue Madre said:Really?
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That's Iqqi.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You are a liar. MacAvoy is the one who did all that. I am Macavoy.Bible_Belt said:Iqqi posted that pic a long time ago on NLG and it was deleted soon afterward. Then "My Name is Nobody," which has to be the same person as Sue Madre, kept re-posting it and then started making all sorts of stalker threats toward Iqqi. He said he was going to follow her around and "ruin her life."
Thanks for confessing. Your behavior violated Federal anti-stalking laws, and NLG.net reported you to the FBI. That site had good moderatorsSue Madre said:MacAvoy is the one who did all that. I am Macavoy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Veridin said:Who needs anything resembling statistics when you have anecdotal evidence. Now, I guess you have slept with some white woman (wouldn't be surprised if it was one of the typical fatties) and she tells you she likes to watch interracial porn with black men. Let me see, could that be why she slept with you? And that's a good indicator of the general population? Interracial porn with black men and white women is produced because black men buy it in spades, not because white women buy it, other than possibly a small niche.