"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
17% of Women are Addicted to Porn
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
She's hot. Now whether she should be on a forum dedicated to helping men, when the DJ bible says advice from women is useless, is another issue all-together.Sue Madre said:Really?
That's Iqqi.
Sue Madre, you're pretty comfortable already for just 7 posts. You do realize that no matter how many handles you have, whatever caused you problems with the other handles will soon realize itself again. I sometimes wish I was a mod, because I would ban these obviously duplicate handles.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
HariPoter13
Senior Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Thanks for confessing. Your behavior violated Federal anti-stalking laws, and NLG.net reported you to the FBI. That site had good moderatorsSue Madre said:
prairiedog24
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The single hottest girl I know watches a fair amount of porn (I think she's probably "addicted" but that's a relative standard.)
I know she has some guy issues, and considers sex fairly boring and undesirable after she's been in a relationship awhile. For whatever reason, Porn fills that void for her. I think it's kinda sad.
People have their issues.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
Veridin said:
lol this is more likely , black dudes want a slightly overweight white girl with a big a$s , ive heard more than a few rap songs mention "white girls" while they are talking about nice cars or expensive crap , like they are a step up , ive also noticed most girls i see in public with black men , aren't really desirable , by me at least , they seem like the women that don't care what any one thinks