"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
17% of Women are Addicted to Porn
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
She's hot. Now whether she should be on a forum dedicated to helping men, when the DJ bible says advice from women is useless, is another issue all-together.Sue Madre said:Really?
That's Iqqi.
Sue Madre, you're pretty comfortable already for just 7 posts. You do realize that no matter how many handles you have, whatever caused you problems with the other handles will soon realize itself again. I sometimes wish I was a mod, because I would ban these obviously duplicate handles.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
HariPoter13
Senior Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Thanks for confessing. Your behavior violated Federal anti-stalking laws, and NLG.net reported you to the FBI. That site had good moderatorsSue Madre said:
prairiedog24
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The single hottest girl I know watches a fair amount of porn (I think she's probably "addicted" but that's a relative standard.)
I know she has some guy issues, and considers sex fairly boring and undesirable after she's been in a relationship awhile. For whatever reason, Porn fills that void for her. I think it's kinda sad.
People have their issues.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
Veridin said:
lol this is more likely , black dudes want a slightly overweight white girl with a big a$s , ive heard more than a few rap songs mention "white girls" while they are talking about nice cars or expensive crap , like they are a step up , ive also noticed most girls i see in public with black men , aren't really desirable , by me at least , they seem like the women that don't care what any one thinks