"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
17% of Women are Addicted to Porn
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
She's hot. Now whether she should be on a forum dedicated to helping men, when the DJ bible says advice from women is useless, is another issue all-together.Sue Madre said:Really?
That's Iqqi.
Sue Madre, you're pretty comfortable already for just 7 posts. You do realize that no matter how many handles you have, whatever caused you problems with the other handles will soon realize itself again. I sometimes wish I was a mod, because I would ban these obviously duplicate handles.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
HariPoter13
Senior Don Juan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Thanks for confessing. Your behavior violated Federal anti-stalking laws, and NLG.net reported you to the FBI. That site had good moderatorsSue Madre said:
prairiedog24
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The single hottest girl I know watches a fair amount of porn (I think she's probably "addicted" but that's a relative standard.)
I know she has some guy issues, and considers sex fairly boring and undesirable after she's been in a relationship awhile. For whatever reason, Porn fills that void for her. I think it's kinda sad.
People have their issues.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
Veridin said:
lol this is more likely , black dudes want a slightly overweight white girl with a big a$s , ive heard more than a few rap songs mention "white girls" while they are talking about nice cars or expensive crap , like they are a step up , ive also noticed most girls i see in public with black men , aren't really desirable , by me at least , they seem like the women that don't care what any one thinks