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[doctor1996]

In all seriousness, have you ever thought about finishing med school then concentrating on women? We all have to take some time away from women in order to order to reach personal goals and unfortunately I've seen women stall or even derail a guy's future. You're young dude. I wouldn't go too far out of your way just to get chicks.

Still in undergrad

 

[Toddz]

Still in undergrad

I work in medicine and the above post by jaymbrs is absolutely spot on. Focus on your career and reaching your goals. By your username it sounds like you are studying to become a doctor? If this is true, then the absolute last thing on your mind should be women. I would even go far to say that you should not date until after you have completed your residency.

 

[doctor1996]

I work in medicine and the above post by jaymbrs is absolutely spot on. Focus on your career and reaching your goals. By your username it sounds like you are studying to become a doctor? If this is true, then the absolute last thing on your mind should be women. I would even go far to say that you should not date until after you have completed your residency.

Yes that is correct. I have a lot of **** going on in my life, and I don't know where to begin. Additionally, I've been side tracked with getting girls. But I feel like if I focus on studying like I did before, I will never be able to talk to girls . Yet even get in a relationship. My biggest fear is getting an arranged marriage. My family is from one of the brown people countries, and it's acceptable there.

 

[SuckItUp]

I asked her how she was feeling about her midterm and was typing then stopped... And hasn't replied

Look at what you just wrote. You asked a girl how she feels about a midterm. Midterms typically aren’t a sexy topic and talking about is like talking about the weather.

There are a 1000 ways talk to a woman just be interesting, flirt, be patient, and do reveal too much. It’s about giving a woman a taste of who you are (a fun, interesting, happening guy) not giving her the whole picture.

Be a movie trailer don’t be the movie until she’s dying to see it.

 

[doctor1996]

She added me on snapchat, should I snap her?

 

[doctor1996]

I think my issue lies on the fact that I don't actually have a hobby, or something I like to do.. Unless it relates to my goals. I think if I can find an interesting hobby, build rapport, I can go on a plethora of dates.

The looks department, I'm fine.

 

[Asasione]

I think my issue lies on the fact that I don't actually have a hobby, or something I like to do.. Unless it relates to my goals. I think if I can find an interesting hobby, build rapport, I can go on a plethora of dates.

The looks department, I'm fine.

You've already gotten a ton of advise, so I'll just chime in that personally I prefer building rapport as much as possible before asking for the number, if she has a fun time chatting with you and you ask for her number she will be excited to talk to you. I prefer calling if possible since it's easier to gauge but texting do the same as others have suggested. It will take a lot of time and effort to get good at it and considering you're a medical student, you could easily mess your studies up.

Worse yet if you start getting successful women pretend to care about your priorities but they will dominate all your time so tread carefully. Also hobbies are for you, most won't be useful for getting women, I play soccer (and various other sports though not regularly), enjoy various types of books, comics and do programming, can't talk about most of that with women other than passing mentions.

 

[marmel75]

Based on their texts, these women look like real pieces of work for any DJ. They seem to text with with the attention span and writing skills of a house fly.

It's simply called lack of interest. If they were actually interested they wouldn't respond like that. OP, could it be possible these women are giving you their number so you will leave then alone? You did say you were somewhat socially inept...just a thought