100% seriously: should I give up?

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

First thing I would say is focus on your purpose. Find what you are passionate about and pour into that. Women should be a dimension you have fun learning about but you hover above, as if it is just a fraction of your life.

You are spam approaching women without having social skills with the intent of "looking for a relationship." I'm willing to bet you are showcasing your neediness for specific outcomes and it is turning them off. You should be looking to connect with women in a light and fun manner where you are outcome independent, self amused, unpredictable, willing to walk away at any moment.

You can't go from Incel to successful womanizer just because you have the guts to approach. You have to do more inner work and kill the nice guy inside of you. This is dirty dirty work. Focus on understanding female nature, power, frame, become more masculine.

 

[sevbucmash]

I have attempted extensively to diagnose what I am doing wrong, and why I can’t convert.

Sexappeal. Another word to that is *uckable. Do you have sexappeal? Are you *uckable?
That's basically three main things:
A) Sporty body that is within height norm.
B) *ick size.*
C) Sexy clothes and style with proper haircut and jewelry.

They can determine *ick size without undressing you. It's related to your feet and hand size, and they can see it pushing through clothes.

Plus all the usual stuff. Plug what is sexappeal into your favorite Ai.

In your particular case, I'm going by the name you chose, if that's correct name found on Instagram, then you need a combination of plastic surgery on ears, and more gym work. Also, can't really tell from your photo, but height might be an issue. Hand size, and gullible smile are definitely a dead giveaway for B.

Should you give up?

I don't think so. Just hit the gym more, use testosterone (and it's a good thing, because nowadays men have much less testosterone), change your style, less emphasis on ears. You tuck your hair behind your ears to make them look even bigger. Uhmm.


P.S. Another thing, you need to work on your social media. Your social media is probably not inline with who you are by now. Fresher and more interesting pics.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Yeah, I realize that post was a bit intense, lol I was just about to edit it down a bit but as you've beat me to it I'll leave it as it is.

In answer to your question, I was thinking of visiting an incall and I've been talking to Grok about my feelings about that. I'm a Christian, that's against my religion, I want a woman, she's like 5 min drive away and she texted me pics of her, one of her pics included her holding a cross, and I was thinking of starting a conversation about that cross she had in the pics (ie some escorts have crosses as jewlery), and this thought process has been off and on for a while. Grok is trying to dissuade me and convince me that just because an escort has a cross in her pics, doesn't make any potential encounter with her any less sinful as it is clearly written in the Bible that that is wrong. It may be easier in the mind because "she knows who Jesus is" so I don't have to feel I'm taking advantage of someone who never heard about Jesus is I were to go there....but Grok has reminded me...no no no, it's wrong...don't even go there and post-nut clarity will be terrible.

The content is not really purely sexual. It's religious, emotional, philosophical...no sexual acts were discussed above. You could talk about escorts with AI without it being sexual. Of course she offers services, including anal, and has been reported to be a very friendly escort that smels like marshmellows by other clients who visited her.

Not to derail, but quick aside, finally tried SuperGrok and wow. It’ll discuss sexual topics & doesn't have all the censorship these other LLMs do. It’s happy to talk field reports, PUA, sexual escalation, etc.