"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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10 things NEVER to say to a woman

Weezy

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Regarding #7


I was gonna stop by and look at a store this chick told me about on our last date, but I forgot.

She txt'd me a couple days later, told me she had fun with me.. etc, and I mentioned that I had forgot to check out that store..

Would that qualify has breaking #7? I really did wanna check the fn store out...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Good stuff, all of those points make good sense and I made some of those mistakes myself especially #7 #8 and #2, need to learn from that.
 

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dbot said:
I've always been a fan of, "you were my first... how'd I do?"
I always say '500' and when they give me that look, I say 'just kidding, I only slept with 75 girls'. :p

But I love this post. THese were all things I was guilty of in the past, especially talking about insecurities. It feels so... Disney like, so intimate to share your biggest fears. But I guess the real world will never be a fairytale.


Please write more of these dont's.
 

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Add this to the list.

#13 (After being turned down for sex) "So... how about a blow job?"
 

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BUMP.

Sometimes it's fun to dig up old threads and see if you still agree with them, and I actually agree with pretty much everything I wrote still. The only thing I might change is that it CAN be ok to ask a girl to go steady with you. It's not necessarily unmanly, just a case-by-case thing.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Colossus said:
BUMP.

Sometimes it's fun to dig up old threads and see if you still agree with them, and I actually agree with pretty much everything I wrote still. The only thing I might change is that it CAN be ok to ask a girl to go steady with you. It's not necessarily unmanly, just a case-by-case thing.
Wish this bump would have been before this weekend.

Was texting with the chick I'm seeing and I dissed this guy friend / dude that likes her that she's dissed on quite a bit. Was funny stuff but damn, wish I could have take it back.
 

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This is a pretty good thread. Interesting stuff here.

I disagree with number 2. Well maybe not disagree but I would add an addendum. There is a thing I have written about called "vulnerability game." Others have talked about it but it gets tossed under the rug. Now these vulnerabilities can be made up or they can be real, doesn't matter. As long as you know when to share these types of things they can definitely draw her closer to you. The key is using it sporadically. Of course don't be some drag-me-down dude with all these fears/insecurities. But in order to progress with women and get attachment you do need to have a few human instances of vulnerability.
 

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Thanks. Still learning. Much needed at all stages of game/life.
 

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"I'll give you time to think about it" (after asking her out)....this line seems harmless but you regret it later on when she comes back to you with a NO
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nutz said:
0. "I like you."


No single phrase will destroy a woman's attraction for a man better than this one.
Fvck my AFC self!!! Thankfully I recovered from that and girls my age are easier .... god. I was so freaking AFC .......
 

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The dating game is so damm annoying which is why I prefer to look for intimate encounters
 
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