"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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10 things NEVER to say to a woman

Weezy

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Regarding #7


I was gonna stop by and look at a store this chick told me about on our last date, but I forgot.

She txt'd me a couple days later, told me she had fun with me.. etc, and I mentioned that I had forgot to check out that store..

Would that qualify has breaking #7? I really did wanna check the fn store out...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Good stuff, all of those points make good sense and I made some of those mistakes myself especially #7 #8 and #2, need to learn from that.
 

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dbot said:
I've always been a fan of, "you were my first... how'd I do?"
I always say '500' and when they give me that look, I say 'just kidding, I only slept with 75 girls'. :p

But I love this post. THese were all things I was guilty of in the past, especially talking about insecurities. It feels so... Disney like, so intimate to share your biggest fears. But I guess the real world will never be a fairytale.


Please write more of these dont's.
 

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Add this to the list.

#13 (After being turned down for sex) "So... how about a blow job?"
 

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BUMP.

Sometimes it's fun to dig up old threads and see if you still agree with them, and I actually agree with pretty much everything I wrote still. The only thing I might change is that it CAN be ok to ask a girl to go steady with you. It's not necessarily unmanly, just a case-by-case thing.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Colossus said:
BUMP.

Sometimes it's fun to dig up old threads and see if you still agree with them, and I actually agree with pretty much everything I wrote still. The only thing I might change is that it CAN be ok to ask a girl to go steady with you. It's not necessarily unmanly, just a case-by-case thing.
Wish this bump would have been before this weekend.

Was texting with the chick I'm seeing and I dissed this guy friend / dude that likes her that she's dissed on quite a bit. Was funny stuff but damn, wish I could have take it back.
 

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This is a pretty good thread. Interesting stuff here.

I disagree with number 2. Well maybe not disagree but I would add an addendum. There is a thing I have written about called "vulnerability game." Others have talked about it but it gets tossed under the rug. Now these vulnerabilities can be made up or they can be real, doesn't matter. As long as you know when to share these types of things they can definitely draw her closer to you. The key is using it sporadically. Of course don't be some drag-me-down dude with all these fears/insecurities. But in order to progress with women and get attachment you do need to have a few human instances of vulnerability.
 

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Thanks. Still learning. Much needed at all stages of game/life.
 

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"I'll give you time to think about it" (after asking her out)....this line seems harmless but you regret it later on when she comes back to you with a NO
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nutz said:
0. "I like you."


No single phrase will destroy a woman's attraction for a man better than this one.
Fvck my AFC self!!! Thankfully I recovered from that and girls my age are easier .... god. I was so freaking AFC .......
 

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The dating game is so damm annoying which is why I prefer to look for intimate encounters
 
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