"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Considering you only have 16 posts, maybe you should question whether you NEED more than 10 posts in a 24-hour period.49au said:
SamTheHobit
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
SamTheHobit
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amen to that.runner83 said:
Bible_Belt
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Or maybe you've all been duped into that particular groupthink and the truth is that sosuave exists as a business, and most of the money it makes is from selling the email address that you use to register. When the same small group of people have long conversations back and forth, it sucks up bandwidth without making the money to pay for it.runner83 said:
SamTheHobit
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maybe that why ive been getting viagra adds in my spam folder. Are the even aloud to sell our email adresses?Bible_Belt said:
Bible_Belt
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I don't care what sosuave needs to do to pay the bills, that's entirely up to them, and I am grateful that this site exists. What I'm against, as I said on here three years ago: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=144511
is telling people that they are losers for being on the Internet too much. It's just not true. Plus, groupthink is always best viewed with suspicion.