"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
squirrels
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Considering you only have 16 posts, maybe you should question whether you NEED more than 10 posts in a 24-hour period.49au said:
SamTheHobit
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
SamTheHobit
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amen to that.runner83 said:
Bible_Belt
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Or maybe you've all been duped into that particular groupthink and the truth is that sosuave exists as a business, and most of the money it makes is from selling the email address that you use to register. When the same small group of people have long conversations back and forth, it sucks up bandwidth without making the money to pay for it.runner83 said:
SamTheHobit
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maybe that why ive been getting viagra adds in my spam folder. Are the even aloud to sell our email adresses?Bible_Belt said:
Bible_Belt
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I don't care what sosuave needs to do to pay the bills, that's entirely up to them, and I am grateful that this site exists. What I'm against, as I said on here three years ago: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=144511
is telling people that they are losers for being on the Internet too much. It's just not true. Plus, groupthink is always best viewed with suspicion.