"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
squirrels
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Considering you only have 16 posts, maybe you should question whether you NEED more than 10 posts in a 24-hour period.49au said:
SamTheHobit
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
SamTheHobit
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amen to that.runner83 said:
Bible_Belt
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Or maybe you've all been duped into that particular groupthink and the truth is that sosuave exists as a business, and most of the money it makes is from selling the email address that you use to register. When the same small group of people have long conversations back and forth, it sucks up bandwidth without making the money to pay for it.runner83 said:
SamTheHobit
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maybe that why ive been getting viagra adds in my spam folder. Are the even aloud to sell our email adresses?Bible_Belt said:
Bible_Belt
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I don't care what sosuave needs to do to pay the bills, that's entirely up to them, and I am grateful that this site exists. What I'm against, as I said on here three years ago: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=144511
is telling people that they are losers for being on the Internet too much. It's just not true. Plus, groupthink is always best viewed with suspicion.