When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Considering you only have 16 posts, maybe you should question whether you NEED more than 10 posts in a 24-hour period.49au said:Hey guys - I'm running into this post limit and was wondering if/when this is lifted? I didn't see anything in the FAQ about it.
Sorry if this is the wrong subforum.
Thanks...
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
amen to that.runner83 said:If you think you need more than 10 posts in 24 hours, it's simply a sign that you need to do something productive with your life.
Or maybe you've all been duped into that particular groupthink and the truth is that sosuave exists as a business, and most of the money it makes is from selling the email address that you use to register. When the same small group of people have long conversations back and forth, it sucks up bandwidth without making the money to pay for it.runner83 said:If you think you need more than 10 posts in 24 hours, it's simply a sign that you need to do something productive with your life.
maybe that why ive been getting viagra adds in my spam folder. Are the even aloud to sell our email adresses?Bible_Belt said:Or maybe you've all been duped into that particular groupthink and the truth is that sosuave exists as a business, and most of the money it makes is from selling the email address that you use to register. When the same small group of people have long conversations back and forth, it sucks up bandwidth without making the money to pay for it.