"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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49au

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Hey guys - I'm running into this post limit and was wondering if/when this is lifted? I didn't see anything in the FAQ about it.

Sorry if this is the wrong subforum.

Thanks...
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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49au said:
Hey guys - I'm running into this post limit and was wondering if/when this is lifted? I didn't see anything in the FAQ about it.

Sorry if this is the wrong subforum.

Thanks...
Considering you only have 16 posts, maybe you should question whether you NEED more than 10 posts in a 24-hour period. ;)
 

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It's to stop spam!
 

Prodigy746

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That was implemented maybe a year ago or so. Not the smartest idea but i dont care as i rarely post anyways.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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runner83 said:
If you think you need more than 10 posts in 24 hours, it's simply a sign that you need to do something productive with your life.
amen to that.
 

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runner83 said:
If you think you need more than 10 posts in 24 hours, it's simply a sign that you need to do something productive with your life.
Or maybe you've all been duped into that particular groupthink and the truth is that sosuave exists as a business, and most of the money it makes is from selling the email address that you use to register. When the same small group of people have long conversations back and forth, it sucks up bandwidth without making the money to pay for it.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Or maybe you've all been duped into that particular groupthink and the truth is that sosuave exists as a business, and most of the money it makes is from selling the email address that you use to register. When the same small group of people have long conversations back and forth, it sucks up bandwidth without making the money to pay for it.
maybe that why ive been getting viagra adds in my spam folder. Are the even aloud to sell our email adresses?
 

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It depends upon the terms of service agreement that pops up when you join and click "agree." And if you saw the 'Human Centipad' South Park episode recently, you know that everyone reads those carefully except for Kyle.

I don't care what sosuave needs to do to pay the bills, that's entirely up to them, and I am grateful that this site exists. What I'm against, as I said on here three years ago: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=144511
is telling people that they are losers for being on the Internet too much. It's just not true. Plus, groupthink is always best viewed with suspicion.
 
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