"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I thought you were in Real State business or something like that. Why are you a scientist?
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I am a real estate investor and have been for many years. But my core career/business (which has enabled me to invest in RE) is medical/clinical research in the healthcare sector. I was accepted to medical school after obtaining my degree in biology but went full time into research instead of becoming a doctor. Never regretted that decision honestly.

So I was a research scientist long before getting into RE. Currently I do both.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think @BeExcellent summed it up well.

I know there is an innate curiosity for the unknown, origins of the universe, life, etc and we should nourish that and never stop wondering, asking, researching, discussing, etc. But pay attention to this statement: " our limited Earthbound perspective".

We, as a human species, need to accept the fact that we are asking questions beyond our biological, energetical, and conscious capabilities. The moment you accept that and that it will take the same amount of time some of these outer species have evolved to gain that type of capability then it'll become clear.

Ironically, it is the reason some of these species consciously choose to remain elusive, behind the curtain, unknown, or even interact with only certain groups of people.

The truth is: We are NOT ready to know many of the big questions we are asking. And even if the answers would be disclosed to us, we will NOT be able to grasp them.

Like I said before, your purpose here on this plane in time and space is to be kind to yourself and those around you. Live life well. Human's time will come.
 
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Modern Man Advice said:
I think @BeExcellent summed it up well.

I know there is an innate curiosity for the unknown, origins of the universe, life, etc and we should nourish that and never stop wondering, asking, researching, discussing, etc. But pay attention to this statement: " our limited Earthbound perspective".

We, as a human species, need to accept the fact that we are asking questions beyond our biological, energetical, and conscious capabilities. The moment you accept that and that it will take the same amount of time some of these outer species have evolved to gain that type of capability then it'll become clear.

Ironically, it is the reason some of these species consciously choose to remain elusive, behind the curtain, unknown, or even interact with only certain groups of people.

The truth is: We are NOT ready to know many of the big questions we are asking. And even if the answers would be disclosed to us, we will NOT be able to grasp them.

Like I said before, your purpose here on this plane in time and space is to be kind to yourself and those around you. Live life well. Human's time will come.
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Gotta disagree. Even if most aren't ready, some are and we may not have a choice anyway. You can spiritually evolve while in human form and many have. And some souls are born with specific purposes beyond just "being kind". Human's time will come, agreed, but imo it will come within our lifetimes.
 
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BillyPilgrim said:
Gotta disagree. Even if most aren't ready, some are and we may not have a choice anyway. You can spiritually evolve while in human form and many have. And some souls are born with specific purposes beyond just "being kind". Human's time will come, agreed, but imo it will come within our lifetimes.
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That’s been the question posed to humans for Millennia right? The question of when. Some have always been ready, most have not been. That is as true today as it was thousands of years ago albeit education & information is no longer the purview of the elite. Not saying things are not still guarded secrets, there certainly are. Any reasonably intelligent person who looks at the landscape in a rational objective way can see that. Various cultures worldwide have mystical, religious or legend traditions that reflect that *something* we do not understand is occurring. Too much evidence throughout human recorded history to discount, but not enough yet for an authoritative irrefutable explanation either. Well. Not enough publicly revealed anyway.

So go make popcorn, pay attention & give things a think. And then go on about your life.

This idea that humans know everything is quite laughable actually. We can clearly see that is not the case at all, but many people retain belief systems that are so dogmatic as to deny objective evidence right in front of them.

That applies to millions of people, perhaps billions. And that is the bigger issue.
 
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BeExcellent said:
That’s been the question posed to humans for Millennia right? The question of when. Some have always been ready, most have not been. That is as true today as it was thousands of years ago albeit education & information is no longer the purview of the elite. Not saying things are not still guarded secrets, there certainly are. Any reasonably intelligent person who looks at the landscape in a rational objective way can see that. Various cultures worldwide have mystical, religious or legend traditions that reflect that *something* we do not understand is occurring. Too much evidence throughout human recorded history to discount, but not enough yet for an authoritative irrefutable explanation either. Well. Not enough publicly revealed anyway.

So go make popcorn, pay attention & give things a think. And then go on about your life.

This idea that humans know everything is quite laughable actually. We can clearly see that is not the case at all, but many people retain belief systems that are so dogmatic as to deny objective evidence right in front of them.

That applies to millions of people, perhaps billions. And that is the bigger issue.
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refers to a book on the race of the grays. Recommending that this is still a very essoteric topic. So eccentric is the vibe you get from this thread
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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refers to a book on the race of the grays. Recommending that this is still a very essoteric topic. So eccentric is the vibe you get from this thread
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No actually my reference above is to the rapture and the second coming. There is SO MUCH we cannot comprehend.
 
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BeExcellent said:
No actually my reference above is to the rapture and the second coming. There is SO MUCH we cannot comprehend.
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The UFOs will likely be the cover story behind the mass dissappearances.
 
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