"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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1 most important thing to attract women

TheGambino

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BE A MAN.

Women respect you for being a man, women disrespect wimps, pvssies.

So first of all, they gotta find you attractive and then fall for you being a man.

If she's attracted, she respects you for having a masculine frame you can get her to invite all her (girl)friends to have a orgie with you only because she fears losing you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I agree. But for someone who doesn't know how to materialize that concept, it's hard to take the necessary steps. The best solution is to imagine a time where you have been extremely busy. People were calling and texting you all the time, but you had deadlines to meet or projects to finish. Maybe you needed to work out in the evenings, so it was hard getting hold of you. You didn't realize why people were blowing your phone up. It even annoyed you. And that's exactly the sweet spot. Having too much on your plate.

It's stressful at times, but it's the only way not to worry about trivialities like who's available or what a woman thinks. Also, time moves faster when you're busy, so that you won't even realize how much goes by before someone calls or texts you.
 

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I agree. But for someone who doesn't know how to materialize that concept, it's hard to take the necessary steps. The best solution is to imagine a time where you have been extremely busy. People were calling and texting you all the time, but you had deadlines to meet or projects to finish. Maybe you needed to work out in the evenings, so it was hard getting hold of you. You didn't realize why people were blowing your phone up. It even annoyed you. And that's exactly the sweet spot. Having too much on your plate.

It's stressful at times, but it's the only way not to worry about trivialities like who's available or what a woman thinks. Also, time moves faster when you're busy, so that you won't even realize how much goes by before someone calls or texts you.
This is a great analogy
 

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BE A MAN.

Women respect you for being a man, women disrespect wimps, pvssies.

So first of all, they gotta find you attractive and then fall for you being a man.

If she's attracted, she respects you for having a masculine frame you can get her to invite all her (girl)friends to have a orgie with you only because she fears losing you.
I think that goes the other way...she can BECOME attracted even if she is on the fence or maybe not so much initially if she sees that side of you. It's obviously much easier if she is already attracted to you but the feelings you can ultimately provide when she is around are you are going to decide how attracted she is long term.
 

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Yep I agree with the OP. Quoting myself from many times before, "Looks get you in the door, frame decides how long you say"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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@Lynx nkaf liked my post. This figures. She is the only member on this board who knows how I look like. People like @RickTheToad who claim I am making a choice would change his mind if he saw my photo too.
 

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Yep I agree with the OP. Quoting myself from many times before, "Looks get you in the door, frame decides how long you say"
Initially this is true. BUT the longer you know a woman the more chances she has to decide to like other things about you than your looks which then allows frame to be more important overall...

This is why you see the hot chick with the ugly or fat dude. Because he believes he is good enough for her and eventually she ends up believing it too
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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