"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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4th annual Anti AA Competition

Gray The Prince

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Yes gentlemen, it's that time of the year again! The fourth annual Anti Approach Anxiety Competition!


http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=182041

2011 competition^

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=190530

2012 competition^

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=202218

2013 competition^



Previous winners

2011- Four way Tie between Myself, Robyn, PrettyboyAJ and Deicide

2012- Roman81

2013- CoachD


Hello all, those of you who have been for at least a year, know about the Anti Approach Anxiety competition held every February. This was started back when I was a rookie DJ my freshman year in college 3 years ago by AAAgent. From the 2nd annual contest onward, I have taken over the organization of the competition with lots of help from Robyn and various others.





Like every other year, the same rules apply:


1.) Veterans and past winners are allowed to participate but are ineligible to win. Self-explanatory rule and we all know who you are. However, if you want to post tips, encouragement, etc. PLEASE do so.

2.) Tasks must be completed and posted on time. Estimated 1 week time span for each task/objective. For example if the task starts on Monday then you must post by Sunday 11:59pm Pacific Time or you are eliminated.

3.) Encouragement and tips are highly encouraged as a means to create better/more fierce competition so that we can better ourselves and better each other.

4.) Just because you fair well with the opposite sex doesn't mean you fair well in approaches/AA. If you are one of the guys that has women approach you but cannot approach, you're welcome to join in.

5.) Do not lie about your approaches/tasks. Even though we have no way of knowing whether or not you are lying, just be a man and accept defeat. Failure is evident on the path to success.

6.) You are to get a phone number if the tasks call you to do so. E-Mail, Facebook, things that aren't phone numbers DO NOT count.
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We will do a two strikes rule. If you fail to meet an objective twice, you are eliminated from the competition no ifs ans or buts. As each round progresses, the tasks will become more and more difficult.


Any questions, comments or concerns, please PM me or post them in this thread. Good luck to you all.


Also if any past winners or veterans want to help with the competition feel free to PM me.




Edit- I forgot to mention! If you want to sign up, then comment in the thread. You have until February 16 to do so.




Participants


LeonSK
Lotus Effect
MartinARMT
Peaks&Valleys*
Titan'Eyez*
Maximus Rex*
Mr. Wright*



*= Ineligible to win.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Peaks&Valleys

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I'm in.
 

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Rex is Considering

I saw this thread last, and I was considering effin' with but now I see that PnV is down, I might have to eff with simply to show y'all that chicks still answer the phone.
 

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Go on then, any old excuse to approach.

Is there a hot girl of the day challenge?
 

Gray The Prince

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Now y'all know veterans ain't sposed to enter. However it would be a unique twist for this year's competition.

All right, y'all can jump in and compete, but none of yall are eligible to become champion.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Peaks&Valleys

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Maximus Rex said:
I saw this thread last, and I was considering effin' with but now I see that PnV is down, I might have to eff with simply to show y'all that chicks still answer the phone.
Bring it!

OP, I shouldn't be ineligible. I wasn't on here for the last one. Plus, this is my biggest weakness, day game approaches. I was flirting with some cute cashier at the grocery store the other day and getting the googly eyes, and I didn't go for the close! That one still hurts..... :kick:

I need this man!!!
 
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I'm in, I haven't even posted in forever. This'll get me back in my groove.
 

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This was the best thing I did last year when I first signed up. Helped a ton. All new guys should try to do it. It's like boot camp.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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As of 2/11/2014 at 9:20 pm CST

Participants

LeonSK
Lotus Effect
MartinARMT
Peaks&Valleys*
Tyte'Eyez*
Maximus Rex*
Mr. Wright*
E Sex
House


*= Ineligible to win.
 

-Gripz-

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Ah,What the hell. I'm in.
 

TheMusic

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I usually quit in the first week. Let's do things differently now!
 

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Gray The Prince said:
As of 2/11/2014 at 9:20 pm CST

Participants

LeonSK
Lotus Effect
MartinARMT
Peaks&Valleys*
Tyte'Eyez*
Maximus Rex*
Mr. Wright*
E Sex
House
Clean Pleb

*= Ineligible to win.
Fixed that for ya
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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