Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I can't cvm during vaginal intercourse...

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But bj's and all that I can just fine...whatsup with that? I remember I used to be afraid id cvm too quick and prayed I would last a long time and well...I guess I got what I asked for.

Any explanation? The current girl is very very sexy, and she is very tight too. And open to a bunch of positions...

I just can't get off inside of her vag...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Desert Fox

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maybe god doesn't want u to have babies lolooololololloll

jk man, i think you're too used to the feeling of a hand or mouth. get used to the vag.
 
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you got a sexual dysfunction that is situational. the reasons may be fear, stress, anxiety, or inability to relax.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Perhaps your sex is just too vanilla to get you going anymore. I suggest thinking of ways to make it more exciting and thus more erotic and tantalizing. Perhaps she could dress up in a nurse's outfit. Maybe it would get your rocks off if you dressed up like a clown and stuck your finger up her bum while doing her doggy. Good luck, mate.
 
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This is a cool problem to have I have been there before too sometimes. It is kind of a cool little feature.
 
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I got an idea.. Why don't you fvck her for a good time then, at the end. Have her suck you off till you cvm.
 
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haha, hey man, at least you're smashin! whatever. do this, imagine a highly erotic fantasy for you and implement it with her. who cares how freaky it is! bring some excitement into the bedroom!
 
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pvf94 said:
But bj's and all that I can just fine...whatsup with that? I remember I used to be afraid id cvm too quick and prayed I would last a long time and well...I guess I got what I asked for.

Any explanation? The current girl is very very sexy, and she is very tight too. And open to a bunch of positions...

I just can't get off inside of her vag...
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Do you masturbate frequently? If so, you are desensitizing yourself to one degree or another.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sun Tzu said:
Do you masturbate frequently? If so, you are desensitizing yourself to one degree or another.
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Yea, I have decided to stop so long as I am getting laid.

See the problem isn't that she wont suck me off at the end but that she wants me to cvm inside her and when I can't she feels insecure and unsexy....as if she is not attractive enough for me to get off while bangin her.

....I'm working on it. haha
 
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i have this exact same problem

dont know why its come about as i only masturbate twice a week and was a virgin until a couple of months ago

could it be that porn has warped my expectations of sex? so it just isnt as good as i thought it would be
 
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I found that when she gets more involved in it and doesnt just lay there and let me bang the hell out of her it gets me closer to coming. I think I am just used to the superior grip and position of my hand. haha
 
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wtf i cant cvm during bj's. looks like we're reversed
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Me neither. Same boat.

It could be any number of things. Male orgasms are simpler than female ones, but there's still a mental element. If you're not relaxed and enjoying yourself, you may not cvm.

also - and this may just be me - I find somewhat looser vaginas better than tighter ones. I discovered this after dating virgins for three years and finally going out with a slvt. Best sex I ever had.
 
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pvf94 said:
I found that when she gets more involved in it and doesnt just lay there and let me bang the hell out of her it gets me closer to coming. I think I am just used to the superior grip and position of my hand. haha
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Hit that sh*t from the back and let her do all the work. You need to relax and stop being so concerned about nutting too fast.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Leporello said:
Me neither. Same boat.

It could be any number of things. Male orgasms are simpler than female ones, but there's still a mental element. If you're not relaxed and enjoying yourself, you may not cvm.

also - and this may just be me - I find somewhat looser vaginas better than tighter ones. I discovered this after dating virgins for three years and finally going out with a slvt. Best sex I ever had.
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I actually agree with this. Not that I like loose vaginas or anything, but some of them are just too tight and not that isn't always a good feeling.

Also, virgins suck at sex wheras sluts are good at it.
 
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This doesn't sound like a bad problem to have. I'd be a little weary about her wanting you to cvm inside her though...
 
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There's a novelty bar sign that may hold the answer for you. "liquor in the front poker in the rear"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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