"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This needs to be read by everyone

Ace of Flames

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Someone posted this on a forum I go to that has nothing to do with getting women specifically. It has a few parts that aren't exactly typical DJ behavior, in particular step 5 and 6, but the overall message rings true. This should 'paint' a clear picture for anyone who is still confused on what the hell they should be doing. Heh, I made a funny. You'll get it once you click the links:

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Part 2
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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wow! that really woke me up and painted a picture for me...more than any article has or any audiobook! thank you so much! a lot of it isnt exactly DJ behavior like you said but it speaks and clears up the truth for you regardless...
 

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Funny as sh*t.
And great presentation. I loved it.

But as practical, helpful, real world advice?.....total nonsense.
In fact, other than a couple of things here and there, anyone who really folows that to the letter will head for disaster. Nothing will get resolved that way really.
Very negative overall, and pretty self limiting.





It is sooooooo much deeper.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Interceptor said:
But as practical, helpful, real world advice?.....total nonsense.In fact, other than a couple of things here and there, anyone who really folows that to the letter will head for disaster. Nothing will get resolved that way really.Very negative overall, and pretty self limiting.
I agree. Regardless, if it kick starts someone into improving their lives, then that's better than nothing. And anyone who finds it on this site will have plenty of good advice to follow once that kick start happens.
 

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Ace of Flames said:
Someone posted this on a forum I go to that has nothing to do with getting women specifically. It has a few parts that aren't exactly typical DJ behavior, in particular step 5 and 6, but the overall message rings true. This should 'paint' a clear picture for anyone who is still confused on what the hell they should be doing. Heh, I made a funny. You'll get it once you click the links:

Part 1
http://img211.imageshack.us/img211/8302/epicxq8.gif

Part 2
http://img211.imageshack.us/img211/2310/epic2op7.gif

Part 3
http://img211.imageshack.us/img211/960/epic3pa1.gif
LOL, a /b/tard in sosuave? say it aint so.
 

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fresh_to_death said:
LOL, a /b/tard in sosuave? say it aint so.
Nope, not me. But whose to say the guy who posted this in my other forum isn't one? I wouldn't doubt it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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it just wakes you up though..i wouldn't listen to the stuff like buy girls gifts and c12ap...but it does wake you to from the "stuck on the computer not living life" type of mentality...
 

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it just wakes you up though..i wouldn't listen to the stuff like buy girls gifts and c12ap...but it does wake you to from the "stuck on the computer not living life" type of mentality...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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