"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
17% of Women are Addicted to Porn
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
She's hot. Now whether she should be on a forum dedicated to helping men, when the DJ bible says advice from women is useless, is another issue all-together.Sue Madre said:Really?
That's Iqqi.
Sue Madre, you're pretty comfortable already for just 7 posts. You do realize that no matter how many handles you have, whatever caused you problems with the other handles will soon realize itself again. I sometimes wish I was a mod, because I would ban these obviously duplicate handles.
Bible_Belt
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HariPoter13
Senior Don Juan
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Thanks for confessing. Your behavior violated Federal anti-stalking laws, and NLG.net reported you to the FBI. That site had good moderatorsSue Madre said:
prairiedog24
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The single hottest girl I know watches a fair amount of porn (I think she's probably "addicted" but that's a relative standard.)
I know she has some guy issues, and considers sex fairly boring and undesirable after she's been in a relationship awhile. For whatever reason, Porn fills that void for her. I think it's kinda sad.
People have their issues.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
Veridin said:
lol this is more likely , black dudes want a slightly overweight white girl with a big a$s , ive heard more than a few rap songs mention "white girls" while they are talking about nice cars or expensive crap , like they are a step up , ive also noticed most girls i see in public with black men , aren't really desirable , by me at least , they seem like the women that don't care what any one thinks