Bonafide
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is that real? how in the hell did he transform like that, that is crazy... I was just looking through a thread and a guy posted that and I watched the video
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
that dj dan transformation
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
KontrollerX
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Yep it was real.
Anything is possible if you want change bad enough.
Anything is possible if you want change bad enough.
LostAndConfused
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yeah i liked that video, i think hes banned now... mainly because of some of the stuff he did.
he now loks like a model but he is still *really* insecure i remember he made a thread about how he had some girl say to him that she was his slave. thats one thin hes gotta overcome
he now loks like a model but he is still *really* insecure i remember he made a thread about how he had some girl say to him that she was his slave. thats one thin hes gotta overcome
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Bonafide said:
Hey Dan!
Haven't seen you online for awhile. How are you Brother?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Metaphysical
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fS4r2sOAXXo
Here's an update for you guys on the video. I added some more recent pics. As well as started my own site with an e-book detailing how I did it.
I've been spending the past 3 months typing away like a maniac. It's almost 120 pages. In terms of game, I've been dating a woman in her 30s for the past year and things have been going great with her. She treats me like a KING.
Here's an update for you guys on the video. I added some more recent pics. As well as started my own site with an e-book detailing how I did it.
I've been spending the past 3 months typing away like a maniac. It's almost 120 pages. In terms of game, I've been dating a woman in her 30s for the past year and things have been going great with her. She treats me like a KING.
MikeYikes122
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Pretty good video man. Inspiring stuff.
I don't think you should write an E-book though. You should write a regular book, like a memoir about your transformation.
This site and community doesn't need another guru. What it needs is someone who is a real-life example.
I don't think you should write an E-book though. You should write a regular book, like a memoir about your transformation.
This site and community doesn't need another guru. What it needs is someone who is a real-life example.
KontrollerX
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Dan's original video was a lot cooler as it featured this song.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=suogAdRCntg
If he was a pro wrestler this is definitely better entrance music for him as well.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=suogAdRCntg
If he was a pro wrestler this is definitely better entrance music for him as well.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Why would you date a woman in her 30's for the last year. Your young I believe your 22 or something like that. Any guy who dates a woman older than him is short changing himself. older woman should never be taken serious. Use them for a **** and a nut. The woman in your age range are much hotter, go after them.Metaphysical said:
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I don't really see what's so amazing about his transformation? I think some of you guys are secretly gay and get off on this guy's look, but I don't think it's that amazing.
Firstly, He was pretty skinny and ripped to begin with. It's not like he had to rip tons of fat off his body in order to get definition. Bascially he added some muscle to a lean, scrawny frame and filled out.
Secondly, He had pretty bad acne, but it doesn't take discipline or effort to visit a dermatologist and get a prescription.
Thirdly, He grew his hair out and upgraded his wardrobe........
Where is this so inspiring? I mean sure, it took effort, but it's not like he was totally fat or ugly to begin with. And the women in his video, while they're not total dogs, aren't exactly supermodels either.
I congratulate him on his accomplishments, but show me a 350 pound guy who transforms himself into a ripped super-stud, then I'll be impressed.
Firstly, He was pretty skinny and ripped to begin with. It's not like he had to rip tons of fat off his body in order to get definition. Bascially he added some muscle to a lean, scrawny frame and filled out.
Secondly, He had pretty bad acne, but it doesn't take discipline or effort to visit a dermatologist and get a prescription.
Thirdly, He grew his hair out and upgraded his wardrobe........
Where is this so inspiring? I mean sure, it took effort, but it's not like he was totally fat or ugly to begin with. And the women in his video, while they're not total dogs, aren't exactly supermodels either.
I congratulate him on his accomplishments, but show me a 350 pound guy who transforms himself into a ripped super-stud, then I'll be impressed.
Metaphysical
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Looks is only a small part of the equation. The rest of the equation is the game on a mental, emotional and spiritual level. What you guys see is my success with women, but this has spiraled into other aspects of my life recently.
As for my girlfriend, she is an amazing woman, although older she has a personality most of you guys never imagine women could have. You don't really live until your girlfriend makes you dinner and for dessert you're sitting on an expensive leather couch with a cognac in one hand, a cigar in the other and your girlfriend giving you a bj. Let's not mention she paid for everything.
As for my girlfriend, she is an amazing woman, although older she has a personality most of you guys never imagine women could have. You don't really live until your girlfriend makes you dinner and for dessert you're sitting on an expensive leather couch with a cognac in one hand, a cigar in the other and your girlfriend giving you a bj. Let's not mention she paid for everything.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
L777
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Metaphysical
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i changed the song and re-edited the video, it's uploaded on my website in my linkDon_Phong said:
L777
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This video always makes me laugh, as does you guys' responses. Yes, kudos to the guy for changing...but PLEASE get off his d.ick! His acne cleared up and he's put on some muscle. I started off with almost the exact same size body as this guy and I now have about 20lb more muscle than the current "DJ Dan"...am I gonna make a video...hell no!! The picture of him fully clothed in the doggystyle position with that minger (thats an UG to you Americans) and the skinny-boy-in-a-leather-jacket-with-long-hair pose are just cringeworthy....how can you not laugh out loud at those?
Keep your little story to yourself and stop making out like you're some sort of Jesus firgure. Seriously...for all you losers that have been INSPIRED by this....let me show you how to do it:
1. Search this website for a post called "the idiot's guide to growth". Follow it. Follow it for longer if you want better girls than the the UGs and fatties that make up 75% of that video.
2. Get cool haircut and clothes and accessories.
3. Approach.
Please can I have legions of followers now?
Keep your little story to yourself and stop making out like you're some sort of Jesus firgure. Seriously...for all you losers that have been INSPIRED by this....let me show you how to do it:
1. Search this website for a post called "the idiot's guide to growth". Follow it. Follow it for longer if you want better girls than the the UGs and fatties that make up 75% of that video.
2. Get cool haircut and clothes and accessories.
3. Approach.
Please can I have legions of followers now?
That post was full of hate. I think someones jealous.L777 said:This video always makes me laugh, as does you guys' responses. Yes, kudos to the guy for changing...but PLEASE get off his d.ick! His acne cleared up and he's put on some muscle. I started off with almost the exact same size body as this guy and I now have about 20lb more muscle than the current "DJ Dan"...am I gonna make a video...hell no!! The picture of him fully clothed in the doggystyle position with that minger (thats an UG to you Americans) and the skinny-boy-in-a-leather-jacket-with-long-hair pose are just cringeworthy....how can you not laugh out loud at those?
Keep your little story to yourself and stop making out like you're some sort of Jesus firgure. Seriously...for all you losers that have been INSPIRED by this....let me show you how to do it:
1. Search this website for a post called "the idiot's guide to growth". Follow it. Follow it for longer if you want better girls than the the UGs and fatties that make up 75% of that video.
2. Get cool haircut and clothes and accessories.
3. Approach.
Please can I have legions of followers now?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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