"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Does height matter?

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I was reading this thread and it got me wondering whether some girls won't go with a guy who's not that tall (I'm 5'7 for instance). I'm not saying a guy who's less than 5'5, but just someone average like 5'7. I don't think hbs will usually care about this if you show confidence, but some might. What do you think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I generally go for girls smaller than me. Talking with my female friend contingent they agree with this. Girls dont normally like being with a guy shorter than them.....Girls average hight is smaller than blokes anyways. Hieght isnt that important. I would always game girls my hight or smaller thow.
 
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I'm 6'3" and I can definitely say that being tall helps.

No one has perfect looks though. We all have our inadequacies that help level the playing field. Strengths and weaknesses. You've got to do the best you can with what you've got.
 
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Nausicaa said:
I'm 6'3" and I can definitely say that being tall helps.

No one has perfect looks though. We all have our inadequacies that help level the playing field. Strengths and weaknesses. You've got to do the best you can with what you've got.
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I'm 6'3" also and yes it does help. On the playersupreme show there apparently is a chap who is 4'9" on a recent podcast. Now if your 4'9 inches this will hinder your ability to chase 6 foot blonds as my buddy stated.

He also stated once that one of his sons is 5'6" and has no problem getting women. As well as talking about his cousin who is 5'5" and a regular pimp on yesterdays show.

One thing that is important is to stay within a certain height frame. Going for girls shorter than you is a good idea.
 
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Height is an excuse. Generally speaking, girls go for taller guys, but I've often times seen a shorter guy with a taller girl. It's all about what YOU want.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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