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just tell her to tell you if she's going to show up or not so you don't waste your time. Then move on when she gives you her excuse. Also, stop with the :) :) :) :). I don't think people here will feel inclined to help you if you don't seem serious about taking to heart the advice they give...

what line of work is this?

If you just want to have fun with her why are you going on lunch dates? Honestly, they have a kid together. If she wants you again she will come find you. Other than that I wouldn't actively mess with a woman with a kid in the first place.

Once you have sex you'll realize that it isn't such a big deal to just talk to a woman and your problem will go away

This has to be understood in the context that it only applies once COMFORT/RAPPORT is established. Trying to escalate without her being comfortable with you (or at least inebriated or something) often will come off as desperate and/or the famous term girls like to use: "creepy".

I personally would have an issue with this, especially with the hugging and arm linking when they are together. Next time they do stuff like that just intervene in a non confrontational way, like casually going between them and putting your arm around your girl while kiss her on the cheek or...

Also, you seem to be using a lot of coined terms when talking about how you escalated, built rapport, etc. Maybe she wasn't comfortable with you yet. This might go against some of the preachings here, but imo sometimes its better to build rapport and comfort at the expense of escalating on the...

I guess you could have gauged her interest sooner this way, but I don't think that's what he's asking. Sometimes your game can be tight and everything can seem to be going right and it just don't pan out in terms of her interest. That's the inherit disadvantage with the whole old school...

Your father wins

well, at least we got him to understand it was a bad/stupid idea and that she probably wasnt interested in him anyway. God job guys :up:

Step up your interaction with other girls. You're "other girl" dosage is severely lacking if you're getting this bad a case of oneitis. It's really the only reliable way to proceed when dealing with oneitis. You guys aren't exclusive so there's no reason for you to catch this kind of feelings.

No contact is indeed what you should do, but I think you want to do it for all the wrong reasons. You "know she is attracted to you" but has rejected to you twice? That doesn't make any sense. If a girl was attracted to you she would not reject you at all. Period. The purpose of no...

Yup. If you're not looking to be exclusive, prepare to keep dropping old plates and getting new ones as girls won't stick around forever if they get the hint that things aren't going to progress anywhere. Such is the way of plate spinning.

How am I a troll? I think I make pretty good points. Also the only reason he is back in WWE is because his acting career failed. He tried to be an alpha action star and hollywood wasn't having it. what a beta

but in all seriousness. he has a receeding hairline. beta trait. not to mention he plays a beta in a lot of his movies, like the one where he has to take care of a kid that isnt his or whatever derp

mm sounds like u want him to be YOUR alpha male ;)

I think he's more of a beta delta gamma-ish kind of guy

after further review, the ruling on the field stands: snowdog has gotten it in. runner83 is charged one hater point.

Just don't catch feelings for a girl on the rebound :) A good thing to do is make sure you guys kick it in YOUR element (your houseparty, a place you've been to a lot before. If you can do this even her friends can come too; you can play them off each other to not only build comfort by...

What exactly does she say to you in your conversations with her? Right now all you are giving us is your reading of the situation, for us to be of any help we need some summary of what exactly she's said and in what context.