"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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girl wants you so badly...but doesn't trust you

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piday314

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You've been playing with an HB's heart for a long time, to the point where she wants you so badly, but doesn't trust you any more. Sometimes you sweet talk her, sometimes you ignore her completely, sometimes you talk **** to her, sometimes you openly talk about your love of other women around her. Now she doesn't know wtf is going on. She just knows she wants you but doesn't trust you at all. How would you proceed?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Real Talk

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What exactly does she say to you in your conversations with her?

Right now all you are giving us is your reading of the situation, for us to be of any help we need some summary of what exactly she's said and in what context.
 
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RockaRolla25

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Isn't the James Bond/Brad Pitt test applied here?

Do you think a woman would say "I don't trust you" if Brad Pitt or James Bond were in the room with her?

Of course not. She would be like, "Please f.uck me right now until I pass out."
 
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PapiChulo

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That's because you talk about the love of other women around you. Decent women need comfort before they open their legs even when they are horny for you.
 
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And can you blame her, when you act like bipolar attention wh0re?
Playing Games is for girls and the sole reason so many perplexed guys end up in here. Don't play their game and don't play with them.

I assume you trying to seduce a girl, you have mixed feelings about, that's why the inconsistency in your act. Decide. Go for it or get lost and let the poor girl go.

Good luck.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why do you always structure you posts like this? If you want some solid advice, you need to give more information on the situation you are trying to resolve. It doesn't help anyone when you write "I did X, but the she countered with this, so I switched to Y and Z. What's my next move?" It's not a chess game.
 
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