I'll give you one of the best advice for cold approaches...............................
LEARN HOW TO IMPROVISE...
canned lines and set openers I find are ridiculous. The vibe is awkward and feels forced.
Learn to be funny, and witty.
Then cold approached will no longer be a problem.
I completely understand what you mean.
Getting rejected or screwed over enough times will eventually take a jab at your self confidence.
That's one of the great things about life, we learn from our experiences.
The different between you and failure, is whether you see these so called...
You don't have to be an ******* to get women, it's not something this site teaches. This site teaches the aspect of self-respect and overall bettering of oneself. Being an ******* is a choice, not a prerequisite to getting women.
There's this one "friend" of mine in particular. He always wanted to be good with women, and decided to learn seduction stuff like I did around the same time after we both were dumped by our ex girlfriends.
But the problem for him was he wasn't successful because he wouldn't put in the effort...
Thanks for your wisdom, your empathy spoke to me more than words can express.
It's amazing you know exactly how I feel.
And to Dante420: you're right, I was feeling insecure when they said that, it's because I have known these people all my life. The words they express have meaning to me...
Ever since I started becoming good with women, and understanding what the teaching are on this site, I have much more confidence in myself, I value myself much more and don't accept disrespect. I cannot be peer pressured or manipulated into doing things I don't want to do.
Last night I was...
I agree it is a cynical way of thinking. Love can either be a power game or something that's natural. It's in the way you perceive it. Many of the teachings on this site says that love can be triggered by certain actions.
I believe in the words that Albert Einstein said:
"There are only...
If a girl isn't interested in you anymore after the first date, why would they care if you called again?
If you think you're losing her interest then give her a call and step it up on the second date. Not calling makes u look weak and tells her that you know you don't have what it takes...
Proud of you buddy, great work!! I liked how u just plowed through her resistance like a man.
Ignoring her with NC would of been an AFC move.
The way I see it is that guy's loss for being a total AFC and falling in love after only 3 weeks!!
I hope you tread carefully for the LTR subject.. She...
Does she have time to eat? If she has time to eat, then she has time to have dinner with you..
I think even though she has work/school, she would find time to see you or at least call you back if her interest was there. you're gut feeling tells you shes interested, but her actions prove...
I agree with Jophil. She sent you a text apologizing, then there shouldn't be a problem. NC is used in specific scenarios where you are actually trying to next a girl. NC isn't meant to play mind games, which is a side effect of NC.
I suggest to act like nothings wrong and continue what you...
Agreed, Bob Spour knows what he's talking about. His techniques resemble that of Krav Maga.
It really depends if you're talking about a fight to the death or multiple opponents, or with weapons..
Real life application of fighting involves from knowing how to use ur fist empty handed all the...
why u focusing on all the stuff she doesn't like.. do the things u like and she can come for the ride.. if she doesn't like it.. tough luck ur the catch not her.
its a trap... continue gaming, if u don't and decide to stop, u just failed a sh1t test...
"I have her already" is a mindset of people who pass the first stage of sh1t test and forget about the most deadly one of all.
There's a thread somewhere here which refers to that type of sh1t test when...
You went quite a long ways since we've last talked. You've been keeping yourself busy and moving on. Your a champ and I respect that. Right now you have all the power, and what really matter is YOU. Getting back in touch and contacting her with a reply will only serve to ruin what you've...
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