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Long post but I guarantee there are some pearls of wisdom here. As I get older, I reflect on my past actions. I share this in case it may help someone someday. For most of my life, I have looked at the first girl I pursued as one giant failure. I believe I did everything wrong. Never even...

The Wall Street Journal has a section in Sunday's Paper with the Headline "Have we ruined s*x? - Five writers ask whether society has lost its way when it comes to the most intimate of human acts." The front page of the Review section highlights: 1) A woman asking " If a woman has a fantasy of...

I'm cleaning out a bunch of old paperwork from my first marriage to make some room. I came across a bunch of receipts from when my first wife was having an affair. I wondered if I would find any warning signs that I missed at the time. Here's the first receipt I found. LOL!!! This receipt is...

Not many men could/would this. But Buzz Aldrin did this today. What a guy! Buzz still has the right stuff!;)

All, A friendly reminder that negging is emotional abuse. https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a39439243/negging-meaning/ The media wants men to stop being leaders. The media wants us to stop negging. The first time I met the woman who was to be my wife, I immediately negged her. I...

What are some good movies that show the follies of being a nice guy? Let's compile a list! I watched a great romantic comedy with wife last night called "The Hating Game". A very refreshing movie as it lacks the social justice narratives. I'm surprised this movie has not been "canceled". The...

Stay with me here. I promise this goes somewhere. Women are inherently competitive. For example, a group of women trying to out compete each other with their outfits for male attention. As women approach menopause they become less and less competitive for male attention because their looks...

These are just my observations and there may be other aspects, but I do believe these are the 3 essential elements for a woman to love a man. I hope this helps someone. The 1st one may surprise you. Important to understand: resources can be almost anything: ability to earn money even in...

I write this for the younger guys on this forum. Warning - long post with radical ideas. The scream. The scream reveals all. Why do just about all mammals on planet Earth scream? Let me tell you about a vacation I took 5 years ago… South Africa, Kruger National Park - a large bird walking...

Hi all, I'm kind of looking of an outside viewpoint here. First question...for those who have been married, when you were married how often did you text your sister-in-law? And now...my tale of woe... My sister-in-law's boyfriend texts my wife a few times a week. It's not the texting that...

So, one of my guilty pleasures is watching gameplay on YouTube, preferably live streams. Since I'm too busy to play computer games, I can spend a little time watching other people do it. Plus I get to see games I might want to play someday when life slows down. One streamer on YouTube is Meghan...

OK, I entered the work force in the mid-nineties, have focused on career, and been fairly busy since then. I got into a bad marriage, tried way too long to make it work, became a regular reader here 7 years ago. Thanks to this site, I found a great girl who got me out of my bad marriage and I...

Ok, I'm probably too close to this situation to think clearly, so I'm asking for your opinion. Had a first date with a Match girl in early January. I really fancied her from the first moment. But, she told me her mother had always pushed her and her sister to marry very successful men who earn...

All, I would like to hear some thoughts from all of you on a new dating prospect that I met online. She seems high interest. She initiated contact. She writes to me every few hours. She got sick and had to reschedule and was profusely apologetic. She is the nicest online girl, I've met ever...

You know the early phases, where things are good and a woman wants know all about you and spend as much time with you as possible? Well.....why exactly do you think that is? In my younger days I would answer something stupid like "It's because it's the beginnings of love and she cares about...

It's been about 6 years since I officially joined so suave. Even though I'm mostly a lurker here, this board has helped me in so many ways. Like many of you, I joined mostly because of a oneitis. I was a mess six years ago. Now six years later: 1) My wife moved out this week on our 17th...

Maybe I'm slow and you all know this, but I'm beginning to realize a tactic of some women who are/were in a relationship on Facebook is not to announce that they are single. But instead, just take off any info about the relationship. So, if you 1) are in a relationship with a woman...

Kind of a random question, but curious what others think. What's the sweet spot for a woman's height for you? I'm coming out of a long marriage with a woman who was about 6 inches shorter than me and I'm finding I like the taller girls now. I'm starting to find shorter attractive women really...

Well....not real war where anyone actually gets hurt, but the kind of war to make the world a better place...I challenge all of you to make the world a better place for men everywhere. Read on if interested. First off, this if true, is ridiculous...

I think most of us can agree that the term "mid-life crisis" is essentially a shaming word invented by women. This term generally applies to men who are at the peak of their earning potential. It's such an important time in a man's life that women had to invent a special shaming word to...