It's been about 6 years since I officially joined so suave. Even though I'm mostly a lurker here, this board has helped me in so many ways.
Like many of you, I joined mostly because of a oneitis. I was a mess six years ago. Now six years later:
1) My wife moved out this week on our 17th wedding anniversary. Best anniversary present ever! It was really a bad marriage. I'm 6 weeks out from being completely divorced. I'm coming out of it in good shape as there are no children and we both earned about the same.
2) I have a girlfriend who loves me, takes care of me, and makes me laugh a lot. She's the exact opposite of my wife
3) I'm living alone for the first time since I was single. It's odd after 17 years of marriage, but overall it feels great. It probably won't last long because of my girlfriend, but oh well.
4) I understand women so much better and I've had attractive women hit on me as I ignore them.
Anyway, I wonder sometimes, knowing what I know now, if I could go back in time and meet my oneitis, would I? I think if I could go back, I could totally game my oneitis. But I'm not sure anymore that I would want to. After six years, my oneitis doesn't seem very unique or special anymore. I'm wiser and more knowledgeable to all her faults and issues.
So if you could go back, would you leave your oneitis alone or pursue her the sosuave way? How are you better off without your oneitis?
Like many of you, I joined mostly because of a oneitis. I was a mess six years ago. Now six years later:
1) My wife moved out this week on our 17th wedding anniversary. Best anniversary present ever! It was really a bad marriage. I'm 6 weeks out from being completely divorced. I'm coming out of it in good shape as there are no children and we both earned about the same.
2) I have a girlfriend who loves me, takes care of me, and makes me laugh a lot. She's the exact opposite of my wife
3) I'm living alone for the first time since I was single. It's odd after 17 years of marriage, but overall it feels great. It probably won't last long because of my girlfriend, but oh well.
4) I understand women so much better and I've had attractive women hit on me as I ignore them.
Anyway, I wonder sometimes, knowing what I know now, if I could go back in time and meet my oneitis, would I? I think if I could go back, I could totally game my oneitis. But I'm not sure anymore that I would want to. After six years, my oneitis doesn't seem very unique or special anymore. I'm wiser and more knowledgeable to all her faults and issues.
So if you could go back, would you leave your oneitis alone or pursue her the sosuave way? How are you better off without your oneitis?