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"Getting the girl" and "a relationship" are subjective concepts. You spend time with a girl. You have a connection, which evolves. Everything else is just unnecessary labels.

Good points guys. I've actually reached a few milestones since this post. Yes, being congruent to yourself is key. I've found that premature/unhealthy attachment to a new girl can be conterbalanced with understanding what needs are being mutually fulfilled in the relationship and what value...

An idea I read earlier in a masturbation context, which caused me to think of it's deeper applications in other areas: Throughout my experience with abstinence from masturbation, I tried to think of not craving the need to beat off -- by mentally eliminating the need for a physical rush of...

Spin more plates.

As Rollo pointed out, girls shi!t testing is as subcoucious for them as guys looking at girls' boobs. They are testing you because they are attracted to you and want to make sure you can meet her needs. She wants to see your power in effect that can give her security and excitement. I was...

Start exercising to relieve your stress.

Mr. Positive, if you know who you are and what you want out of life, start by changing the settings where you meet the women you date. Don't expect to find a great woman in a bar. It happens, but you'd be better off talking to a cutie at the library or at a yoga studio. I see all this men...

There's no magic trick or shortcut to interaction with women. You don't know how to reply because you didn't write the original message. These girls are responding to that message, and you're trying to delude yourself and them into thinking that you're that guy. You are not. If you don't...

Then there's easier way to go about it: just start shooting up heroin, and as long as you can keep the habit you won't have a worry in the world - just an alternate reality bliss.

Why even bother if she doesn't show mutual respect?

Run away with your dignity before the you get poisoned by unnecessary drama. Your subconscious is giving you a powerful message. This relationship is over, walk and don't look back.

Well written and researched, and quite relevant. http://weeklystandard.com/print/articles/new-dating-game?page=12

Sometimes you do it just for good karma and because life is not a zero-sum game. You do it for yourself, if that is your true you coming through.

Why are you asking on an internet forum whether you are compatible with someone you've dated for three years? Communicate with her if you don't like some of her behavior. For some reason, I'm sensing a troll post here.

Are you really 40? Why do you text like a retard? Long distance boyfriend line is a sh!t test, and you ate it up. Why are you overanalyzing her words and not just reponding to her behavior? She's sending IOIs and asking you to make a move. Sh!t testing is part of the process to see if you...

Muscleman, have you ever heard of meetup.com ? Go there and find some meetup groups of your interest. I've been using it the past few years, and it is great to meet new people while doing things you love. Many of my current best friends, I met on meetup through hiking and climbing groups...

Perseus receives pleasure in this other girl being attracted to him as a result of running game on her. If he removes the sexual tension by becoming full time friends, the girl will loose the attraction, and thus Perseus will receive less validation pleasure. Or that's the way he describes it...

Whatever you say, Captain Save a Ho.

You are like that child who plugs his hand into the socket and gets electrecuted over and over, and keeps coming back for more.

You are missing the point here. We as humans strive on seeking and expanding, on constant change and the thrill and expectation of it. Men are better suited for initiating this change, women are better at receiving, appropriating, and ruminating about it. Don't be misogynistic, but try to...