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Like others have written, don't take 'being a challenge' overboard. Ignoring her for 3 calls? Use common sense. She'll move on. If she's attractive she'll go to a guy who at least shows some interest in her. (Not a lapdog, but not a ****head, either.) Don't bring up the flake again if she wants...

You cannot control what others think of you. What you think of yourself trumps all else. If you are upfront with your women, and you tell them that you are not looking for a relationship right now, then you shouldn't have a bad conscience about it or become affected by misdirected gossip.

Unless your friend was interested in her, I'd say it's out of line.

She's a flake and an attention *****. You need to lead HER on. The next time you're about to kiss, pull back, and extract to a different location, say, outside. Be different, be remarkable, be a challenge. Use principles of scarcity. Don't be needy. If you like her but she's flaky, then you...

She sounds like a 'playette' to me. A lot of girls join these sites to boost their ego. Don't contact her again. Find a new girl. Girls will flake at every stage of the game, you just got to keep playing.

A man doesn't ask these questions to its woman, the same way a lion does not ask the elk if it's okay that he begins eating it. And what's with this analyzing the hand-holding business? Come on, man. You take her out one more time, you get somewhere where you're both seated. You escalate...

I think L B's advice is best. If she's really upset then you can't be 'gaming' her. You have to give an authentic apology and explain what you were going through at the time. If she still thinks you're full of it, you have to move on. The only thing you want to avoid is becoming a yapping...

OK. Enough with the hurt feelings and poo-flinging. All I can say is obviously "flake?" is a minor little **** test. If I were you, I'd keep it playful, and get her on the phone after enough push and pull. I'm surprised you didn't know how to handle such an insignificant **** test.

I am considering collecting data by interviewing lots of women of varied beauty, race, etc. questions on sex, dating, relationships, etc. in a goal of collecting useful information for the 'community'. So far I'm thinking of asking questions regarding - how they met their last boyfriend, what...

Real quick: Was out with a buddy downtown, we meet these latin girls on the street, 2 fatties, 1 spunky little one and 1 hottie. We go dancing, the spunky one is unattractive and keeps dancing with me. I dance with her so not to make my intentions with the hottie too clear, as I don't want...

Wow brownbear. You wrote a detailed insightful post and then instantly killed your credibility. Go Knicks! lol...

thanks for the replies gentlemen. I think this girl is kaput, the attraction seems gonzo. thankfully I have a couple dates set up for this week to combat the emotional feelings of one-itis- with a couple different girls - hopefully I don't **** those up.(!!) one girl is a french chick I made...

I'm trying to keep myself from appearing needy. The situation is this chick had attraction to me, we hooked up, and I'm not sure if she's still that into me, she's been curt and cold when I have texted her a couple times - saying she's too tired, or is studying or whatever other excuse. To...

Both options sound plausible... you have the leverage. She is attracted to you, so just show her a good time, get close/intimate, and have fun.

So I recently read an article about female body language, and how women will flick their hair or "groom" themselves when in the presence of a man that they feel some attraction to. What do you guys think of this? I swear I see girls flicking their hair around me a lot lately, and it makes me...

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Find new friends. They're all over the place. You're in college.

You need to relax. What is it that you want? If you want a 100% surefire way to never get an STD, then don't ever have sex. Sex is a dangerous game. That's just the way it is. Take your precautions and go about your business. Wear a rubber. Or abstain if you can't deal with the...

If you've got girlfriends, invite them. The more girls, the merrier. If you're sitting next to a girl who you think is cute, ask them a question, like "Hey, What are you doing this weekend?" Girl: blah blah blah "Cool, well I've got VIP at the club Saturday night, here give me your number"...

My .02 is that you didn't have clear goals in mind. When these beauties approached you, your mind went blank because you were either thinking of future or past and not that present "i am the prize" moment... just get back on your horse, you're clearly doing something right to have stories...