"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl Body Language- The Hair Flick- Who else notices this all the time?

doubledown11

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So I recently read an article about female body language, and how women will flick their hair or "groom" themselves when in the presence of a man that they feel some attraction to.

What do you guys think of this? I swear I see girls flicking their hair around me a lot lately, and it makes me feel like even more of an idiot for not talking to them.

Curious on your thoughts.

#2 is the concept of "mirroring" - is it fair to say that if a girl is mirroring you that they want something more? I recently was at a bar, the girl was a friend of a friend, was nodding her head to the music after I had started doing so ... but when I went to talk to her my game was piss-poor and nothing happened.

Thanks for reading.:rockon:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Don't rely on it when, other people are around.
 

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i get this sometimes when i say hi to a girl for the first time or i'm passing one on the street, mall, somewhere in public. they usaully don't smile at me though so i don't know if it's "legit".

some lady did it to me earlier today. i was going to bank and she was conducting some kind of survey. i agreed and noticed she did 'le flip' as i approached to get the clipboard. probably didn't mean anything though, you can never really tell.
 

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Depends on the situation. If you always look for the hair flick, after a while you can tell when it is a legitimate IOI and when it is a false alarm.

Women WILL hair flick when they feel sexual attraction. It's been proven. They will also run their hands through their hair. From what I have seen in the past that is a huge IOI.

That being said, they will also play with their hair as a nervous habit or because their hair is in their eyes. One time I noticed a beautiful girl who couldn't stop flicking her hair when she was talking to me at the bar. However, I watched her after we were finished talking and she continued to flick her hair - in front of other guys, when talking to her girlfriends, when ordering a drink, etc.

You have to gauge how and when it is done, but always be on the lookout for it. It can be a very valuable IOI and I have seen this first hand. :D
 
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tsmith2334 said:
Depends on the situation. If you always look for the hair flick, after a while you can tell when it is a legitimate IOI and when it is a false alarm.

Women WILL hair flick when they feel sexual attraction. It's been proven. They will also run their hands through their hair. From what I have seen in the past that is a huge IOI.

That being said, they will also play with their hair as a nervous habit or because their hair is in their eyes. One time I noticed a beautiful girl who couldn't stop flicking her hair when she was talking to me at the bar. However, I watched her after we were finished talking and she continued to flick her hair - in front of other guys, when talking to her girlfriends, when ordering a drink, etc.

You have to gauge how and when it is done, but always be on the lookout for it. It can be a very valuable IOI and I have seen this first hand. :D
yes girls have their greasy hands in their hair often, that's what makes it deceptive imo, especially somewhere like university.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You are probably just over-analyzing. Body language should never be interpreted by itself or out of context. It is true, that when a woman plays with her hair it is a sign of sexual attraction if she is engaged in a conversation with someone she fancies, but out of context she could just as easily just be playing with her hair because she likes to play with her hair.
 
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