WFT: So many girls throwing game; I choked! HELP!

[slickaz]

This is A LONG post..but its very interesting..especially the last part..please read! atleast the last part


So last night i went out to, a party at first, and then a RnB club (the one i used to DJ at)

At the party, it was a house music, so it was mostly white girls.

anyway i was standing at the bar and i noticed a friend of mine with her 2 friends. i went up and said hi. she said hi back, all three were 8.5s.

I noticed one of her friends (blue dress) was standing by the wall for about an hour. so later as i walked past my friend i asked "whats wit ur girl holdin the wall all night?" she said "i dunno, you should try cheerin her up.."

so takin this up as a challenge..i use a trick i learnt here..
Went to the bar, bought 2 redbulls and walked over to her..and said <no smile> " You looked bored and thirsty..so i brought you humorous company, ME, and a drink, Redbull, because i dunno if you drink alcohol.."

she laughed said thanks and said she's just a bit not in the mood to dance..i asked why, she said "the music sucks! i want RnB!" so i told her im going to this other club, she should come..she said "yep" so i assumed that was that coz she was still on the wall..

an hour later - at the RnB club.
i walk in, do the look around.and notice only 2 girls im keen on..
one girl at the bar with a green tight short dress extremely gorgeous and a body shape you just want to hold forever..
one in the crowd with black dress pants and a tight white top, 9.0 as well.

i go to the bar and the girl with the white top comes up and stands next to me..asks me what time it is..and she had a phone in her hand..so i know she couldve checked..

and so here is the PROBLEM!!!: i said 4:15..and choked!!!
she: wow! its late!..im about to go home soon...
Me: Yeh it is late..<FUK SAY SMTN FLY QUICK>
She: Oh before i go, im gonna have a drink with my girl, join us..
Me: <first time a banging hot stranger female has asked me to the bar!!>ok.
She buys drink..yadda yadda fluff talk all generated by her..

she says ok we're about to leave now..arent you going to ask for my number?
me: <DAM DAM DAM DAM> umm..i was plannin on it <or smtn stupid like that>
i get her number, she gets mine..and she says bye..

So i thought ok..im going to man up and get this dry spell over with...
I see the green dress coke shape body is still in the club..
so i walk up to her..
Me: Hey, im kinda helpin the crew out today in makin sure everyones havin a good time..are you?
She: hahahah nice one..
Me: Ok yeh i was lieng.
She: no?! i couldnt tell..so why'd you really come up to me now?
Me: Well..my cousin owns this club (which he does) so im just being a good host, but mostly that green dress called out to me..<smtn like that>
She: I bet you said that to the girl in the white top too huh?<smtn like that but refering to the girl before>
Me: Oh..um..haha..nah she's been put in my friends box...for now..
She: hhahaha..ok..

HERES THE THING..I CHOKED AGAIN!!!
i couldnt find a good way to ask for her number...which sucked! coz i had to walk away out of nothing to say...
she was with about 7 girls and i guess i dropped it.

The first girl from the other club walks in..and suddenly acts like im her FB.
huggin me and kissin me on my cheecks and face.. im like wow!!

but get this..the green dress notices this because fortunately this happened right next to her group..

2 minutes later..she reaches out grabs my hand..pulls me in and says "we're about to leave..gimme ur number.."

Im thinkin..THIS HAS TO STOP!!! im not used to girls askin me for numbers.

Anyway i give my number..she rings me to double check i have hers right.

Heres the other funny bit.
This girl waits till she sees me sayin bye and showin peace to my dudes at the club..when she walks up to me..and says i wanna go home..but i dont have a ride..so me being silly.."where do you live?"

READ THIS::: I REMEMBER THIS BECAUSE I DROPPED NUTS!!
She: Next to yours..
Me: bahahahahahahahah!!!i got nothin to say to that..dayum!!
She: So are we headin home..
Me: Yes we is!

so we go to the car and she says smtn like, my curfew is tomorow night or smtn..
we get to my place..and check this out..
We're sitting on the couch..she sits next to me we watchin TV..
she says can i have a drink..
i get her a vodka cola and when i sit back i sat on the other couch..STUPID MOVE.
really long story short, after a long talk <BECAUSE I WAS TOO STUPID AND DIDNT MAKE A MOVE!!!> she ended up sleeping on my couch..and i went to bed upstairs..


im writing this now..its 10AM and shes still sleeping on my couch...YES THATS RIGHT..SHE IS STILL OUT THERE!!! sleepin on my couch in a really short green dress..WTF!

WFT is wrong with me?!! i used to be able to play this so well...

 

[doubledown11]

My .02 is that you didn't have clear goals in mind. When these beauties approached you, your mind went blank because you were either thinking of future or past and not that present "i am the prize" moment...

just get back on your horse, you're clearly doing something right to have stories like this one.

 

[touge]

I have no idea what you were thinking..

probably nothing lol

Yea not many guys get stories like that, especially with girls showing so much interest, even though you acted like an almost complete AFC. Get out there. its bound to happen again. And prepare yourself next time. Read what you wrote and maybe you can click what you could improve on.

 

[fruitopiax]

This is A LONG post..but its very interesting..especially the last part..please read! atleast the last part


So last night i went out to, a party at first, and then a RnB club (the one i used to DJ at)

At the party, it was a house music, so it was mostly white girls.

anyway i was standing at the bar and i noticed a friend of mine with her 2 friends. i went up and said hi. she said hi back, all three were 8.5s.

I noticed one of her friends (blue dress) was standing by the wall for about an hour. so later as i walked past my friend i asked "whats wit ur girl holdin the wall all night?" she said "i dunno, you should try cheerin her up.."

so takin this up as a challenge..i use a trick i learnt here..
Went to the bar, bought 2 redbulls and walked over to her..and said <no smile> " You looked bored and thirsty..so i brought you humorous company, ME, and a drink, Redbull, because i dunno if you drink alcohol.."

she laughed said thanks and said she's just a bit not in the mood to dance..i asked why, she said "the music sucks! i want RnB!" so i told her im going to this other club, she should come..she said "yep" so i assumed that was that coz she was still on the wall..

an hour later - at the RnB club.
i walk in, do the look around.and notice only 2 girls im keen on..
one girl at the bar with a green tight short dress extremely gorgeous and a body shape you just want to hold forever..
one in the crowd with black dress pants and a tight white top, 9.0 as well.

i go to the bar and the girl with the white top comes up and stands next to me..asks me what time it is..and she had a phone in her hand..so i know she couldve checked..

and so here is the PROBLEM!!!: i said 4:15..and choked!!!
she: wow! its late!..im about to go home soon...
Me: Yeh it is late..<FUK SAY SMTN FLY QUICK>
She: Oh before i go, im gonna have a drink with my girl, join us..
Me: <first time a banging hot stranger female has asked me to the bar!!>ok.
She buys drink..yadda yadda fluff talk all generated by her..

she says ok we're about to leave now..arent you going to ask for my number?
me: <DAM DAM DAM DAM> umm..i was plannin on it <or smtn stupid like that>
i get her number, she gets mine..and she says bye..

So i thought ok..im going to man up and get this dry spell over with...
I see the green dress coke shape body is still in the club..
so i walk up to her..
Me: Hey, im kinda helpin the crew out today in makin sure everyones havin a good time..are you?
She: hahahah nice one..
Me: Ok yeh i was lieng.
She: no?! i couldnt tell..so why'd you really come up to me now?
Me: Well..my cousin owns this club (which he does) so im just being a good host, but mostly that green dress called out to me..<smtn like that>
She: I bet you said that to the girl in the white top too huh?<smtn like that but refering to the girl before>
Me: Oh..um..haha..nah she's been put in my friends box...for now..
She: hhahaha..ok..

HERES THE THING..I CHOKED AGAIN!!!
i couldnt find a good way to ask for her number...which sucked! coz i had to walk away out of nothing to say...
she was with about 7 girls and i guess i dropped it.

The first girl from the other club walks in..and suddenly acts like im her FB.
huggin me and kissin me on my cheecks and face.. im like wow!!

but get this..the green dress notices this because fortunately this happened right next to her group..

2 minutes later..she reaches out grabs my hand..pulls me in and says "we're about to leave..gimme ur number.."

Im thinkin..THIS HAS TO STOP!!! im not used to girls askin me for numbers.

Anyway i give my number..she rings me to double check i have hers right.

Heres the other funny bit.
This girl waits till she sees me sayin bye and showin peace to my dudes at the club..when she walks up to me..and says i wanna go home..but i dont have a ride..so me being silly.."where do you live?"

READ THIS::: I REMEMBER THIS BECAUSE I DROPPED NUTS!!
She: Next to yours..
Me: bahahahahahahahah!!!i got nothin to say to that..dayum!!
She: So are we headin home..
Me: Yes we is!

so we go to the car and she says smtn like, my curfew is tomorow night or smtn..
we get to my place..and check this out..
We're sitting on the couch..she sits next to me we watchin TV..
she says can i have a drink..
i get her a vodka cola and when i sit back i sat on the other couch..STUPID MOVE.
really long story short, after a long talk <BECAUSE I WAS TOO STUPID AND DIDNT MAKE A MOVE!!!> she ended up sleeping on my couch..and i went to bed upstairs..


im writing this now..its 10AM and shes still sleeping on my couch...YES THATS RIGHT..SHE IS STILL OUT THERE!!! sleepin on my couch in a really short green dress..WTF!

WFT is wrong with me?!! i used to be able to play this so well...

Couple questions.. are you a virgin? Did you have any sort of reservations about fvcking that girl when you met her?

Cause I can understand everything that happened up to the part when that chick basically told you she wanted you to fvck her, and then you had her in your house. But the part where you sat on the other couch says to me you weren't comfortable in that situation for some reason. You KNEW she wanted you to fvck her, any man would know that. So why didn't you make a move? Irrational fear of rejection?

 

[DevanE]

...

Hey man I'm assuming your a virgin but it's alright it happens. The problem is that your THINKING too much about it as well as your ego is running the show. What I mean by ego running the show is that you THINK that girls need to be making the moves so YOU don't look stupid in front of them. You CARE too much about what the other person is thinking. Who cares if you fuk up...? Who cares if you bust a nut in 2 secs....? If YOU are cool with being a human because all humans make mistakes have flaws and bust nuts in 2 seconds than she will be as well. Most of all you have these fears of rejection which you need to get rid of because again you don't want to LOOK stupid. This all stems from idiosyncratic ideals, insecurities and irrational selfishness because you ARE being selfish by NOT making a move since you keep thinking about how it's going to make YOU look in front of the girl or how your INEXPERIENCE will finally show it's ugly head.

Think about all this and conquer your FEAR...it's kind of silly isn't it...? So what you need to do is just be confident/smooth about all this operation, make her feel good and comfortable so the favor shall be returned. Most importantly stop thinking soo much and enjoy the process!!!

 

[Poonani Maker]

fvck I would have at LEAST kissed her before or after she sipped her vodka cola actually I think I would have kissed her and THEN handed her her vodka cola and then started kissing her again after she took a sip and then work my way into full-blown fvcking her

 

[slickaz]

dude! you're not helpin! lol..

i can assure you im not a virgin..ive been with about 25 to 30 women (depending if you count ons) since i was 14..and im 25 now.

Also i have not been AFC for like 8 years!...
however of the 8 years ive been in 2 long term relationships (4 and 2 yrs)

i think its because off late ive been really really busy with work and for the past month i have had absolutely no introduction to new women..except maybe once or twice and hardly through my own proactivity.

so maybe i thought that night i just absolutely lost all my game, had a blank night.

anyway heres an update on what happened.

i wrote this at 10AM on sunday morning, and walked out after reading some old posts here on game...saw her laying there watching TV, she had switched out of her clothes into her undies but was under the blanket on the couch..
i didnt know what to say, so:

me: You're still here?!!
she: Ha!!! i figured ud have the courtesy to drop me home..
me: Well that courtesy needs to be earned young miss..after bbreakfast!
She: yeh feed me atleast..<she seemed really mad>
me: <pulled off the blanket on her, surprised to see her in her bra and panties> woowww!!
She: im cold?!?!?!?!?
Me: Help me with breaky n u can have this back..
She: whatever!!...<gets up to go to the kitchen..>

i grabbed her, put her to the wall and kissed her..that lead to more and more..and so yeh..i think i saved that..

however after the event..she asked me why i didnt do anything last night..
i didnt know how to say "i lost my game!"

so i said: " you probably got everythin you wanted when you wanted just coz you're a hott chic right?....i had to be different!!! how else will i leave a lasting impression?!!!"

she laughed and called me a p*ssy..<which i know i was that night..>
me: well you didnt say that on the kitchen table top?!

so she laughed and asked me when im going to see her again?


so i dunno..i guess i may have saved it..

also...not every dude can be perfect gaming all the time..sometimes i guess due to external forces you lose your focus...like someone on here posted..

Gaming women is not my sole priority in life..its to establish a business and make tons of money..so i guess that is more imp than satisfying one girl....

i can tell you one thing though...she text me later and basically said she was very satisfied with sunday mornings session because it was out of the ordinary, unexpected and involved stuff from the fridge...

 

[Huffman]

whoa, last second save

 

[shaunuk]

Jeez man, congrats on saving the day! The BS story you told her about "being different" might actually have paid off lol. Well played

 

[Bonafide]

lol you gotta be a homo...gotta be

 

[slickaz]

WFT! i just said i f*kd the donkey out of her..and using food! and ended up havin a shower to clean up with her..damn it!!..lol..how am i a h0m0?!!! lol..

yeh thanks guys.
i was here sunday morning hopin someone would post a reply so i cud get my sh!t together go out and tap it..then i read some more stuff in the archives etc..figured if i dont get it then im never gettin it from her..so i did..

lol yes i know last second save..and i managed to do it just in time..

shes been hittin me up since monday (yesterday) to meet up again..she wants to come over to my place...i havent replied..


i went on a date last night (monday) with the chic in the blue dress from sat night (rayanne)..it went really well..but i dont see her puttin out super quick..shes a little reserved...

i might use green dress (Julia) for the good bedtimes until i pop blue dress..

thanks again for kickin sense into me though.

 

[Sicx]

Nice job saving that man. Im sure it was well worth it.