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Do you think that anger is a sign of passion, can a woman truly hate a man that she doesn't feel something for? I went for a number close on a girl I've known for awhile, who a long time ago asked me out but I kind of turned her down (lame on my part). Since then she has been playing hard to...

sorry to waste your time. I'm beyond asking other people how to live my life.

I did a search, but I don't see this topic in the MM forum. Rollo talks a lot about shaming tactics from women, and one I'm hearing now is that if the man doesn't pay the date, he is actually being feminine and passive, and is attracting more masculine, ball-busting like girls because he's...

It's an accepted "truth" that women don't like guys who smoke. Being a smoker, this hits home. It's an expensive habit, it's a dirty habit, it's a stupid habit. Almost $5 a pack in Cali. Recently I went to a Laker's game, during half-time we were out on the patio and I saw a TON of good...

This is a post I made in the mature man forum and I figured I'd post it here as well. My view is that there are two camps: men who think if the girl is not a perfect princess from the get-go, then she should be immediately disqualified, and men who realize that women use nature-made strategies...

Is foreign to me. But it seems right. There are a zillion beautiful women on this planet, and being a man, when I see a hot one, naturally I think of sleeping with them. Yet when I meet one girl it seems I automatically start thinking in terms of "girlfriend" and when I end up seeing another...

This is the first time I remember seeing him write on masculinity, and I've got to say it's great to see the DJ mindset expressed here. Constant reinforcement. how to be a man

No not necessarily about women, but substitute a bad work situation for a bad relationship. A dude I have worked with for a few years is leaving, I'm glad for him. He got a job in a different part of the state, doing pretty close to what he WANTS to do, basically be outdoors and go camping and...

I am feeling really strange lately. It's like there's this DJ version of reset sort of coming out. I can feel myself changing. I went to a movie the other day, I was at the box office and saw myself reflected in the glass and I saw a tall, good looking, masculine man looking back. I didn't know...

This is a post from STR8-UP in a thread that's not longer post-able. I think a lot of guys can relate to this. I think it would be great for the men on this board chime in about this uniquely male "dilemma", as I think the way women perceive this topic, and the way men perceive it, are...

That's right I said "oprah". Ego is a big problem for a lot of us. I've gotten a lot from this guy's books. Power of Now and A New Earth. These webcasts are long interviews, and Q/A with the big chick, with normal people asking questions. This is great stuff, in my opinion. All about how we...

Not to be too petty, but this is a sociological question. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't. I think they just expect you to get over it, and will just be all nice and sweet, as if that were enough. Is that enough? Does it matter? Edit--if you withdraw attention, you get nice and sweet...

What's your opinion on this specific topic. I can't remember who said this, it was in Mature Man forum, but it was if you THINK you're being manipulated, or that she has pulled something sneaky, and you confront her: she'll react two ways: If she acts insecure and seems genuinely nervous...

Yes, there are threads like these here already. So what. This is mine. I am on a masculine role model in the movies kick. I made this list for another user in a PM but figured I'd share it here as well. These are the movies that come to mind that have had an influence on me in the last couple...

This is a post from my man Interceptor, directed to a guy who didn't feel much hope. The thread has been deleted, for reasons which don't need to be elaborated on. Fortunately I copied and saved this post before the thread was deleted. If it's really BAD for you right now--- like REALLY BAD...

This isn't really about women, but this is a big part of my life. Coming to terms with this stuff is what being a Mature Man means to me, which is why it's not in Anything Else. I'm posting it to get it off my chest so I can move on, any comments are appreciated. I'm sure I'm not the only one...

Hey guys so I've been taking much of what I've seen here in the Mature Man forum to heart. I went from an AFC who walked right into a BPD's trap to a guy who started learning "seduction" (used it on girls at work) then I found a girl I thought was compatible with (same interests--different...

Long post: I wasn't always AFC. But somehow I became one and lost my game. Got involved with a BPD chick about a year and a half ago (didn't last too long) and had my world completely flipped upside down. Down the rabbit hole. Started looking at myself, and this site was a big part of that. So...

Something I have noticed, and would like feedback, this is probably more geared to LTRs. Women will say many things about how men SHOULD behave. For instance, they like to be called often because it shows you care. Or, they want you to let them know how much you care, and to be honest about...

Just curious. You start to get involved with a girl, and she tells you in months time she'll be moving away. But it doesn't seem to add up...she won't leave you alone, is qualifying herself to you, always wants to know what you're up to, gives you every buying signal possible... Would a chick...