"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Eckhart Tolle webcasts at oprah.com

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That's right I said "oprah".

Ego is a big problem for a lot of us. I've gotten a lot from this guy's books. Power of Now and A New Earth.

These webcasts are long interviews, and Q/A with the big chick, with normal people asking questions. This is great stuff, in my opinion. All about how we perceive ourselves and that constant stream of thought that can torment us.

It's practical stuff.

Take it or leave it.

tolle webcasts
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LOL

Alfred E. Neuman on pot.

Watch Dr Pauls mind OS instead.. Great stuff
 
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thanks for sharing.
 
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Not meant to be hating here :)

Just suggesting MindOS since its the same thing hes talking about but from a more scientific point o view.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm watching David D's Deep Inner Game at the moment and I'm liking Dr. Pauls stuff a lot. The thing is that what I've got from it so far is to build onto your ego (your 'boundary') while Eckhart Tolle's works tells us that we should seperate from it completely. I know Dr. Paul tells us we should practise observing ego but that isn't exactly like Echart Tolles inner stillness, or basically 'being in the moment'.

So I'm a little cofused at the moment because I like the work of both people and I don't know what to intergrate into my life to get what I want.
 
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