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I stumbled across a counter-intuitive strategy that seems to work pretty well for me that I thought I would share with anyone who is interested. Look for the bad in people. All your AFC life you get told to look for the good in everyone. But when you are living like a doormat and...

Okay, here's the deal. Like a lot of people here, I'm sure, I was an AFC for a very long time. I was wishy washy, acted like a doormat, and made all of my life decisions based on my feelings at the time rather than logic and facts. So consequently, I constantly made a lot of bad decisions...

Okay, so I haven't posted here in awhile because awhile back I decided to take a break from the game just to work on myself. It's been up and down for the most part, but I guess I've made some progress. Here's the problem. The more time away I've taken, the more I've come to realize...

So I've become fairly adept at getting phone numbers and going out on random dates with new girls. I get on average about a number or two a week which is great considering my former average of about 0-1 a year. But I've found that I don't generally feel any better about myself or my...

"With great power comes great responsibility." That's the most accurate quote I've ever read in my life right now. I've read things for years on what to do if your game fails you, but I've never read one thing on what to do if your game works too well. I got a very sweet girl to...

Okay, so after realizing awhile back that knowing a bunch of techniques but lacking the confidence to back them up will essentially net you nothing in terms of success with women, I decided to take a break from the game and work solely on my inner game. I refused to go back to trying to pick up...

So I was up at my usual bar the other night when one of my friends who works there propositioned me to work the door since the usual guy called in. So I said what the hey and went along with it. It was freezing ass cold, but they were all very nice bringing me coffee the whole night. I...

I must be evolving. My last one night stand just texted me out of the blue. We had a short little conversation, and she asked what I was doing tonight. I told her I had plans (which I did, but I didn't really want to hang out with her tonight anyway). I'm actually more interested in...

And it ain't me. I guess this is a blessing in disguise as I am now free to do whatever the fück I want without my overwhelming insecure AFC core wondering if it will jeopardize anything. Now there's nothing to jeopardize. I'm celebrating tonight by getting drunk and shaving my head...

I've noticed that when I've been talking to a girl and it's come time to end the conversation, when I go in for the number close, I sometimes get met with last minute resistance even if the conversation has gone well. Generally, this happens with hotter girls. Anyway, I've noticed that...

Okay, twice in the last month, I have been blown off by women I had plans with. And instead of sitting around moping like an AFC, I did something with someone else. The problem is that both times, I traded down. The other night, I had plans with a HB7 I had been talking to. But she...

I know I shouldn't care, but it just pisses me off because it means I'm still doing things wrong. I'm pretty sure it's because I didn't go in for the kill when I had the chance. Twice. Of the four or so girls I'm talking to, there was one that was my favorite. The first time we went out...

So I've recently developed a case of not being able to pull the trigger. Generally, by the second time I go out with a girl, I'll have a decent chance at a K-close. But I've begun second guessing and being stupid about it and not wanting to strike unless her buying temperature is up. And I...

The weekend before last, I got this girl I had been talking to for a couple of weeks over myspace to come all the way across town at 1 in the morning to pick me up and drive me back to her place. Then the next day, I did it again. This girl was more into me than any girl I've seen in a long...

I've been trading emails with this chick for a couple of weeks now. She's admittedly a spoiled brat / princess type. And she's a cougar, so she's had lots of years to perfect any kind of tests. We finally talked on messenger the other day, and every speculation I had about what we would...

Part of this is because I'm drunk, and the other part is because I got the hat trick tonight. I struck out with all three prospects I had lined up. I thought I could at least land the fat girl. I'm good at landing fat girls. How the fvck do you strike out with a fat girl? She already...

I crashed my car on New Year's over some seriously AFC sh!t. So now I'm having to hitch rides with my friends everywhere I go. Which is fine if I'm just going out or talking to random new people. But it makes setting follow up dates hard as hell. How do I keep from losing spinning plates...