"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How can you not drop spinning plates if you don't have a car?

Nexus Polaris

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I crashed my car on New Year's over some seriously AFC sh!t. So now I'm having to hitch rides with my friends everywhere I go. Which is fine if I'm just going out or talking to random new people. But it makes setting follow up dates hard as hell.

How do I keep from losing spinning plates due to lack of transportation?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nexus Polaris

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How?

I know it's possible because the most suave guy I know who used to be the door guy at the bar I frequent never had a car, and he got hotties to pick his ass up and drop him off all the time.
 

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When you go out with you friends (and they drive) you get the girl's #s.

When you call them you establish a bit of rapport and then ask for the date.

Tell them the truth (that you were in an accident) and that they have to pick you up or get your buddy to give you a ride to meet up with the girl and get her to bring you back.
 

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Mind_Body_Soul said:
Tell them the truth (that you were in an accident) and that they have to pick you up or get your buddy to give you a ride to meet up with the girl and get her to bring you back.
I agree. But when you tell them you had an accident make sure to mention that it "wasn't your fault". Also remember that this excuse has its time limit so you best find a car after a couple of months. I remember I had my car stolen and I was supposed to have my first date with this chick and when I told her about it the first thing she asked was whether she can come and pick me up with her car to our first date (it also shows high interest if they offer to pick you up without you asking so use that to your advantage)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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