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You can say a lot more by saying less. Don't respond.

To me that sounds like "I like being with you but we're not going to have sex anymore"

Is there some reason you couldn't call her and have a conversation? Asking her out via text msg just looks weak.

Ok you've built attraction, but it seems like you're stuck at that stage. You really should have gotten her number and made plans to get together by now. Escalate. If you stay at the "building Attraction" stage too long it eventually starts to work against you. I'm sure she's wondering why...

I guess the thing here is that it's pretty obvious she didn't want to just go home, she wanted to hang out with you. You let her walk away and the game is a tie, nobody wins. I think you still could have gotten her to stay without looking like a chump. When she said that she was going home...

All your FRs seem to have a common theme... you coming up with some excuse to not make a move. You have some hangup or insecurity that always seems to stop you from making the move to kiss a girl. I don't know what's going on inside your head, but I'm guessing you're making this out to be...

If you don't touch her someone else will. And then it won't be long before you're home alone touching yourself wondering what the fvck happened.

Ask the new girl out.

So go get it.

Here ya go Luke. Here's a myspace profile of a guy who has gotten 400 dates in 4 years. http://www.myspace.com/dconstruktd He also sells a product called Insider Internet Dating. He provides email templates for the first, second, and even a "no response" email. All you have to do is...

So call the one you like and make plans to go out. The other one will just have to deal with it, but that's her problem and not yours.

OK if you've seen this one a few times then she has some interest in you. Let's escalate things a bit. Next time you're sitting on the couch watching a movie you put your arm around her. If you're too scared to do that then try just resting your hand on top of hers, chances are good she'll...

Jesus Luke, it's been 2 months since you started this thread and you're still afraid to make even the most basic forms of touch with an ugly girl? What the hell have you been doing all this time? What about the chick you were taking walks with? She seems like a perfect chick to practice...

Did you touch her at all? You have to do the kino, man.

I met and fvcked a chick that I met on myspace and turned down another who offered (got a weird vibe from her that she would be clingy afterwards)... so it can be done. I've heard adultfriendfinder is a complete waste of time & money. There's also matchdoctor.com ... it's not great, but...

Did you ever meet up with any of these chicks after you got the number?

You're just making excuses.

If they think you are mean or a jerk, then you are using too much ****y and not enough funny. ****y without the funny means people see you as a jerk or an *******. Be more funny.

People only walk all over you if you let them. Don't let them. Grow some ****ing balls and stand up for yourself.

Yeah, I think the engagement thing is pure BS. Based on your post I think she gave you a few opportunities and you didn't follow up on them. When she had you fill out the form, you could have said something like "you know, if you wanted my phone number you could have just asked for it"...