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    For those of you who are hot heads especially if someone tries to AMOG you how do you handle this without it turning into a punch up?

    For those of you who are hot heads like me how do you handle being AMOG'd in a group setting be it at a group dinner with gf's/friends and 1 guy wants to show he is the big man or tries to test you making derogatory remarks or comments belittling you in a jokey manner to assert his authority and...
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    Date went well until.. we got outside and she saw my car then it went south quick

    I went just now on what i thought was a really good date Interest from the start IOI's laughing at my jokes Yeah i could have done things bit better maybe used better topics but overall it was good from my pov My only thought was she cut the date short cos it was getting late and she has...
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    Gauging High interest which turns to low IL do you still follow course of action as if she was high IL?

    I know with fundamentals to only meet with HB's who have high IL from the off, give phone number immediately etc But if her IL drops inexplicably over something so little do you then just categorise her in the low IL bin and move on? For example on dating app i got a very hot HB, everything...
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    How to maintain an abundance mentality when you have no options and find it difficult getting a few?

    How do you maintain an abundance mentality mindset when you dont have any options and when you do they aren't of high quality or if you get a HB10 as your only option how do you keep your cool and maintain this frame when in the back of your head you know you may not get anymore for a while?
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    Is there a thread on online dating app sh1t tests? Q&A

    Is there a thread on here about how to navigate sh1t test online dating app questions: 1. 'How many girls have you added from the app? 2. Have you added a lot of girls from these apps? 3. If you have so many dating apps how come you haven't found the right one? They cant all be bad...
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    Action date activity seems to be working but HB not forthcoming

    I been doing these sports activities for a few months now tryna see if it is fruitful i was told on here sports isnt good because loads of guys do it. I took up squash instead of basketball and arranged many meet ups with HB's.. some are suspicious why im meeting girls but i gave some excuse...
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    Navigating social media and dating apps

    I haven't dated for many years as have been in LTR's for a few years each with people i met long before social media or the pandemic existed. In the past 8 years not only has social media exploded so have dating apps bumble, tinder, hinge etc + instagram + pandemic How do you guys navigate...
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    Applying the 2 strikes rule how long do you wait before you recontact or does it not matter?

    As a rule of thumb the 2 strikes rule seems to work well when dealing with HB's but have any of you had varying degrees of success depending how long you waited in between strikes? Say you ask a girl out and she flakes, when do you try again to apply the second strike? Is 1 week or 2 weeks too...
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    For those of you who got into LTR with HB's who weren't that interested in the beginning but fell in love with you later?

    Have any of you guys been in long term relationships with HB's who weren't that interested in you in the beginning but you won her over and she eventually fell in love with you? How much do you overlook in the beginning? Ignoring red flags? If your game isnt 10/10 tight how much do you let her...
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    If HB is going through emotional turmoil at work, promotion wasnt given, boss steals credit for her work, crying, avoid for a while?

    This HB i just met recently is going through emotional turmoil at work, promotion wasnt given even though promised, boss taking credit for her work, not taken on important managers meeting abroad, marginalised and upset crying for days complete mess I made suggestion we'll go for a proper date...
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    Turning a HB into a love interest via sport/action date?

    I haven't been on this forum in years, gone through my own spiritual journey in PUA navigating social media and dating apps which never existed 10 years ago to now in 2022 finding myself single, rusty and not evolved. Im a good basketball player, coach, i joined this basketball app to meet...
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    can in still salvage this? dtf milf gone cold

    I met this m1lf this week from a dating app who was dtf, we were making out in the bar and she made it clear she was looking to have fun regularly..not a ONS. The thing is I don't have my own place as I live with a relative so that wasn't an option, i said hers but she has 2 grown up kids who...
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    is she attention seeking or playing it cool?

    I met a HB off tinder last Sat after a few days of talking. I was late due to traffic which put me in a stressed mood so didn't go as well as i thought. I tried being direct saying she looked better than she did in her pics sweet talking her she laughed it off like 'stop'. When we left things...
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    super hot HB i picked up. can i turn it into a lay?

    Over the weekend i picked up this super hot milf in the shopping mall. I rocked up next to her commented on her bag and a convo ensued. Turns out she is divorced with kids but comes from super wealthy family from her country. She likes intelligent men and initially i could tell she was...
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    lost my wallet pickpocketed or left it at home date paid for me

    Ok so i finally met the woman from my other thread she suggested to grab a bite to eat yesterday when she arranged to meet me at a shopping mall. I said i had a business dinner prior she told me to cancel it but i couldn't . Because i was in a rush i changed but i think i forgot my wallet as...
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    Called her out. sh!t test to see if she still got me. proceed or silence?

    This model i was supposed to meet for a date last fri 2 fridays ago off facebook seemed excited to see me and i know where i went wrong because i anticipated she would flake so i was surprised when i originally arranged it 2 mondays ago that she seemed into it..took me by surprise. She asked me...
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    how do you answer the questions 'so what did you do last night?' if you were supposed to meet

    if i am supposed to meet a HB tonight but she was being silent not replying to my confirmation messages and i made a joke about taking some other pretty girl instead and she counter offers with tomorrow and i said i couldn't meet tonight anyway as i made other plans (ie with another girl) im...
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    is there an android app that lets me view sosuave.net or the dj bible directly?

    I know for some forums you can download the tapatalk app and if it's a compatible forum view topics direct from the app. Is there an android app that does the same thing that's compatible with sosuave.net? I just prefer to read the threads via an app rather than the browser on my phone both...
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    am i overreacting?

    i've been attempting through the summer to meet up with a mutual friend HB of my friend who went to same college as her. they know each other but aren't friend friends if that makes sense. also my friend i dont see too often so an introduction would never occur. anyway she was due to move to my...
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    do i have any chance of f*cking her? instagram

    This chick i been talking to on instagram is hyper sexual, sexually promiscuous liberal whatever all i care is that she f*cks a lot and is super hot. It started off with me trying to meet her for a date when she wasnt forthcoming with her number i called her out saying she was an attention...
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