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Yes for 6 years. She never cheated on me. We eventually split up as we wanted different things, she wanted to move out of the city and "settle down" and I wanted to stay in the city and be single again as I felt like I hadn't experienced enough women. I wanted to get out and spread my seed :) I...

Can ANY woman be gamed though really? What about the one's who are with DJ's? In my opinion I don't think they can. They will hold on to a DJ because they know he is a good catch. I think being a DJ should mean you can get quality women who want to hold on to you, and wont shag someone behind...

Damn, try living in London :) To convert to dollars, typically looking at $7 a beer, $13 a ****tail, $8 a mixer/shot. If you miss the last subway home (which go at midnight, so most of the time you do) probably looking at $30 - $40 for a taxi home.

Fair play :-) I doubt most men could in that situation... The only time I could personally is in a LTR.

Hey mate, I only gave my opinion of the situation based on what I would do, that's all. I don't know you from Adam... :) I'm interested to know though, if you aren't bothered about having sex with the girl and you think she is a 4/6, and you are not interested in some sort of relationship...

Yes, it's pissing it down, it's cold and windy, and I've got a cold and a headache, I need a holiday :cry: ;) I don't think I would go on holiday, not for just a weekend either with any woman who I did not consider LTR material - to me it would be putting across the wrong impression of what...

I think this is really good.... :up: I can see it would work.

Hey, I find myself for the first time ever "spinning plates". I have 2 girls on the go and they don't know about each other. I've not lied but I haven't specifically told them about the other. They both know that I am not up for anything serious and it's just casual, I've not given them the...

It was quite the opposite I think, I was given a lot of space and freedom to do what I please. There were some rules of course, but it was all pretty relaxed. A few times here and there I did get my ass kicked when I'd stepped out of line but nothing too bad :) I'd be inclined to say that if...

Hey, Anyone have any tips on not giving a sh!t about what people think? I find I'm too concerned about upsetting people and doing the wrong thing in case they end up disliking me. Also I think it stunts me somewhat in social situations as I'm overly concerned about how I come across to...

I prefer to go to bars and pubs on dates, because, well I like going to bars and pubs :-) I like having a drink, and if the woman doesn't, chances are she isn't going to get on with me. Alcohol does losen you both up somewhat.

Interesting post!! I'm definately more reactive than proactive. Things I think make me reactive: * I had a 6 year relationship so am not looking for a LTR at the moment. * I've had sex 100's of times, and I don't think it's really a big deal for me now, so therefore don't feel like I need to...

Oh yeah, love it!!! Gotta be shaved though, or at least very neatly trimmed and also clean. I once went down on a girl who's pubic hair resembled the amazon rainforsest, suffice to say I didn't last long down there. I love to do it before sex, get them really worked up, maybe stick a couple of...

Thanks for the link. If I read correctly, spinning plates can bring confidence as the guy knows he has options and therefore is unlikley to get ONEitis for one girl which makes sense. I can't help thinking we should have this confidence anyway though? Like if we are seeing only one girl, the...

Hi guys, I've read about plate theory and it seems to be highly advocated by a lot of people on the forum. I'm interested to discuss it. I'm not experienced in spinning plates, my experience in the past couple of years has been a string of STR's and I've not been seeing multiple women at the...

Some great posts guys, thanks. VU, quality post, I think you are spot on. I totally agree that an emotional bond can develop through sex even in a casual relationship, I'm not not devoid of emotion and I have developed some feelings for this girl so I am experiencing what you speak of. When it...

...what do you think? Do you think they can work? I'd like to think so, but I'm not sure really. In my experience (which granted, is not huge, I'd say 5 relationships that I'd refer to as being casual) they have always ended up with the girl wanting more, even though I'd either a) said upfront...

Hi Ben, Since you are in London, have a look at www.thelss.com if you are not on there already. Dan

My own Dad even forgot mine last year. I wouldn't worry about it, the only reason I remember people's birthdays is because my contacts in my mobile phone are linked to the calendar with their birthdays. So I get a notification on my phone. Most people aren't this organised though and birthdays...

Damn, checking out some of these pics I have realised I'm not in good shape!! http://82.111.140.37/IMGP0301.JPG I'm 6ft 1, 81kg, no idea of BF% but I think it's much too high. You guys think I need to be focusing on cutting and forget about lifting for the moment? df