"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Surprised at myself...

disfunktional

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Hey,

I find myself for the first time ever "spinning plates". I have 2 girls on the go and they don't know about each other. I've not lied but I haven't specifically told them about the other. They both know that I am not up for anything serious and it's just casual, I've not given them the impression otherwise.

So Saturday night I stay at one girls place, Sunday morning we have sex. Sunday night I stay at the other girls, we fool around but she's not comfortable having sex (on her period). If she wasn't on her period we would have had sex for sure. This is the first time I've ever done something like this, 2 girls in 1 day, even seeing 2 girls concurrently. And guess what, I felt no guilt whatsoever, I thought I would but I don't. I really don't care a great deal about either of them, I'm just trying to get laid. And these are not random girls, they are friends of friends. I'm surprised at myself....

No real point to this post I guess, just felt like I needed to jot it down. P.S just so you know it's not an ego stroke, I suck in bed at the moment, I've barely been able to get it up around these girls :crazy:

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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squirrels

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Great feeling, isn't it? Go for 3. Once you have a different girl for Friday night, Saturday night, and Sunday night, you'll be set. Any more than that is a hassle to maintain. (though you can throw in as many one-nighters as you can stand :D )
 
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